I met a guy on an online photography sharing site,we both are graphic designers.We became very good friends ,chatting everyday,talking about our fears,dreams,future and all that stuff.Right when i was getting closer to him,he revealed he has fallen in love with another women he met on the same site.He kept writting to me and asking all about how to go about with his new relationship asking advice all the time.He still kept telling me i am special to him and he wants our friendship to last and all that stuff.But at the same time he ignores all the simple but important stuff in my life.Like when i send him a letter saying i am going on a 10 day holiday he never replied.After i came back, 5 days after that i got a mail from him saying he was too busy with his girlfriend and did not check mail.All this kind of stuff.I dont know what to make of it.
He has added many in his friends list on the photosite,but he has n't added me .
Should i just break my friendship with him?
2006-12-08 21:47:05 · 9 answers · asked by meg1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What to make out of it is this guy is such a creep.
How much longer are you going to keep deluding yourself? You're just a fall back girl to this user as he's already told you that he's too busy pursuing this other flame of his. He doesn't even have the decency to include you in his friends list. How's that for a slap in your face? The only thing "special" about you is what he can get off of you. He asks you for advice about another girl then he forgets about you! What a crock of nerve! And you're letting him get away with it. Shame on you!! He should have been gone a long time ago.
Break the "friendship"? What friendship? Never was, never will be. At the very best you were a gullible acquaintance who he snubbed and insulted all the time pretending to care about you.
2006-12-08 22:17:58 · answer #1 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't take this the wrong way but I think he was enjoying your attention and appreciating your advice while trying to woo this woman. If he is close to this other woman, he should put her first. It sounds like their relationship is deepening and you are a bit of an afterthought. He was leaning on you for advice while getting to know her. Ever heard the saying 'flogging a dead horse' If a guy says he was too busy with his girlfriend then I think he is politely (or even cowardly) telling you just that without ignoring you or being rude.....
Distance yourself. You don't really have much of a friendship to break with him. Take it for what it was..... a friend who you gave advice to when he asked you for it.... time to move on. x
2006-12-08 22:07:04 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meeting guys online even though he's just a friend is dangerous. I would break your friendship with him because it sounds like the guy is an ***and he doesn't care.
2006-12-08 21:53:44 · answer #3 · answered by audrey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about "breaking the friendship" just don't put too much effort into it .... he obviouslty thinks more of this other woman than he does you.
Just go about your life and chat and meet other guys .... Mr Right is out there ... you juist need to be patient :)
Good Luck
2006-12-08 21:50:54 · answer #4 · answered by deadkelly_1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just break the friendship because obviously he is not interested with you anymore and like they say there are a lot more fishes in the ocean and the right one will come along that will be the right one for you.
2006-12-08 22:17:00 · answer #5 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. He hasn't added you for a reason, maybe due to his g/f.
2006-12-08 21:52:31 · answer #6 · answered by rwhz199 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No theres no future for you and him,hEs just using you dont waste your time..
2006-12-08 21:52:32 · answer #7 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesn't sound like he is being much of a friend to you....
2006-12-08 21:50:41 · answer #8 · answered by crimson_carnage 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u were late but u can tell him ur feelings......
2006-12-08 21:50:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋