I have this long distance relationship. We have been fighting alot. Mostly because of his ex's (several) and I'm the jealous type.
Just Thursday night he says he wants to step back. He's suppose to be coming here for christmas, but has parties planned to attend and such. IS he stepping back cause he wants dates for these parties?
He's saying he's going to try and come up with the money to move me to his town during the christmas holiday. SHOULD i BE GOING, or stay put?
2006-12-08 21:46:07 · 12 answers · asked by peggin_beast 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stay put! The guy is supposed to move for the girl. Of course he's taking other dates. why is he stepping back during one of the most important holidays of the year besides Valentines day. Come on buddy just fess up.
2006-12-08 21:53:05 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, sounds like there is a trust issue here. If you dont trust someone (especially your partener) than there is a problem. So if your going to have a long distance relationship with someone you dont trust...it isn't gonna work.
Honestly, I wouldn't go if I were you. I've seen too many people go and leave town for a guy, then they get dumped and the female is ALL alone. If you were to go, you should have full trust in him and you shouldnt be jealous...
2006-12-09 05:54:53 · answer #2 · answered by LiL JoJo Sneakers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Silly question you should be staying where you are and finding someone new. He knew hewas coming to you for christmas but chose parties instead. Get rid if that is how he treats you. I am a UK male and he stinks.
2006-12-09 05:49:02 · answer #3 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with The Best Answer. Long distance relationships are stupid and usually don't work out. Just find someone new and local.
2006-12-09 05:52:14 · answer #4 · answered by togetheradecade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be playing a game, sure; but why does he have to pay for your trip? Can't you get a job and pay your own way. I mean really, this is the 21st century and women are free to get jobs, save money and pay for their own travel expences, right?? If I were him, I'd tell you to buy your own damn ticket if you really want to get together.
2006-12-09 05:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by Feeling new @ 42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself, do you really love this guy?
give him a few days' grace. if he doesn't really do anything about the relationship to improve it, maybe you should just leave and pursue someone better. i think you feel jealous as you're insecure.
find somebody that can give you a secure feeling.
honey, you deserve better.
2006-12-09 05:50:11 · answer #6 · answered by Coin Soup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are stupid. If you fight alot even when you are far away from each other how do you think it will be when you're not?
2006-12-09 05:49:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay put. Why keep fighting?
2006-12-09 05:49:39 · answer #8 · answered by rwhz199 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur a steak without a bone baby!
2006-12-10 12:26:58 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B where u r
2006-12-09 05:52:56 · answer #10 · answered by LoL ! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋