2006-12-08 21:29:44 · 17 answers · asked by katgurl79 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is it love?
LOVE
There is no time limit. Love can come in 1 second or it may take 50 years.
But love has a quality. If the quality is there then it is love, Even after 100 years, if the quality is not there then it is not love. It is not a matter of time.
LOVE means that you only have a desire to make your object of love happy without any selfish personal desire. Love is selfless.
That is quite a tall order to fulfill, but when it is there, it is there and you have it!
If you are trying to satisfy yourself in the relationship then you are under the influence of lust, anger, greed, etc. It is not pure love.
PURE LOVE means unmotivated and uninterrupted. 24X7 I think of you.
Pure love is even devoid of sex desire, though you may reciprocate sexually with your object of love to please them. When you have pure exclusive love for someone then you are essentially desireless. You only desire their happiness and their happiness is the source of your happiness--to the point that if they become happy by giving you distress, then you will take your own distress as your greatest happiness...because it makes them happy.
These are very elavated concepts of love and not ordinarily attainable on the material platform.
These are generally realized in our eternal personal relationship with God, who is really the only one worthy of such a high degree of love, and even then it is rarely attained.
Hope this helps!
2006-12-08 21:39:32 · answer #1 · answered by TransformYour.World 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on what your definition of "love" is it isn't wrong to love anybody, but you might be better off with a new love because if he is your EX-boyfriend that you says something right there.
2006-12-08 21:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by Paul H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it is wrong to love your ex. I have one whom I'm still in love with and we split up 5 months ago. Just remember, you can't choose who you love. It just happens.
2006-12-08 21:35:21 · answer #3 · answered by audrey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its never wrong to love someone. This is not something one can control. However if it hurts you, then no matter how hard you must try to forget him BUT knowing he will have a place in your heart and memories.
Time to move on.
Take care.
2006-12-08 21:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by Rosy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all, I am very good friends with my ex & we both still love each other but we knew that we were better off friends. We could have either ended it & be friends or stay together & become enemies. We were both young..
2006-12-08 21:35:11 · answer #5 · answered by lori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not blame yourself for loving your ex, but you should be sure that he feels the same way about u.
2006-12-08 21:44:44 · answer #6 · answered by slanzy girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
narrr cource not i still love my ex in a way even tho he ****** up my life made every one hate me lie to me steel from me slept in another womans bed exetra exetra ....love is a strange feeling ill neva quite understand bt its not wrong to have feelings for some one even when u have broken up it takes time to get over loosing some one u have been so close to ...its hard to move on even tho i no i should i carnt because i still love him hopefully it will get easier is all i can say for all of us :)
2006-12-08 23:58:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because it may be you split up because he did not love you it does not mean you fall out of love with him. Just realise though that you have to find someone else because he does not want you.
2006-12-08 21:31:40 · answer #8 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not wrong to still have feelings for your ex that way
2006-12-08 21:31:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all you cant just fall out of love it takes time and sometimes it never gos away you just learn to move on
2006-12-08 21:33:58 · answer #10 · answered by keevy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋