Currently I work in my Dad's office. I have my own space of coming anytime. I am commerce graduate and have done computer course. I am afraid how will I manage both house and job. Pls someone how has experience of managing both house & work give me sound advice.
2006-12-08 21:05:45 · 16 answers · asked by p&o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
NO NEED TO WORRY THERE ARE LOTS OF LADY WHO WORK AND MANAGE THEIR HOUSE ALSO. YOU ARE WELL EDUCATED AND DEFINITELY WORKING IN BPO OR ANY OTHER COMPANY YOU WILL NOT FACE ANY PROBLEM.
2006-12-08 21:13:05 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I managed house and home, two children, a degree course and full time work career reasonably successfully. The operative word was 'managed'. I had a live in housekeeper and my husband did 50% of the weekend homestuff. All seems to have worked out well with two well balanced children who know the meaning of hard work and what it takes to attain at uni.
Well done for your Fiance to see that this independence will be very important in the long run. He will no doubt be aware that he will have to play his part in the child raising too of course and is probably happy to do that. If not, it is very important that he understand that, and good that you can find this out now before you have committed yourselves too fully.
2006-12-08 21:28:23 · answer #2 · answered by AJ... Australia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a very high percentage of young people today move out on their own long before getting married - and to do that they both have to manage their own house, and hold a job to pay the bills. If single folks can do it - so can a married couple without kids! Today, many parents manage it was well, so it;s really not as major as it may seem to you. Just tak eit one day at a time, and you will do fine. Keep the job you have - the only thing that changes on your wedding day is that you will now be sharing responsibilities with your husband instead of doing it all on your own.
2006-12-09 07:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by Chrys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To begin with, be regular in timing and work output at your Dad's office. When Dad notices it and commends you for the effort, you will know you have made the grade. Then do a little more to meet the grades of any tough task master boss. After that you won't find it difficult to workanywhere. Then look around find teachers who go to work early in the morning after giving breakfast to the family and keeping lunch ready for the noon. It is all a matter of getting organised in your work. Learn early in life to cultivate a pleasant attitude towards life instead of cursing your stars for having to work. Instead, count it as a blessing that you are able to build up family finances and secure your and children's future
2006-12-08 21:29:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see that you are proficient in ms word etc and even some accounting software. choose to work from home. see that you live within your husband's income and dont have great expectations and desires. [future course of action] if you keep your desires under control, and convince your fiance that you will co-operate with him on all counts , he wont compel you to go out for a job. you can choose some freelancing job which will not compromise family life if you work from home. later, you will be able to give your best attention to your kids also. good luck everything will work out fine for you.By doing this you will have a very good life and it will be mutual adoration. Stoop to conquer if you need a co-ordinated , peaceful family .keep hired help at home. Just because you are at home it does not mean that you are a servant. Your husband will not expect it of you if you make things clear in the beginning. you have a desire to make it work --you will. Dont get led by all the so-called feminists.Freelance jobs, sensible investing at home, are all fruitful. above all peace in the home-front is most essential. Both of you give plenty of personal space to each other--live and let live-you will achieve what you want.btw , hope your fiance has a steady job.
2006-12-08 21:14:15 · answer #5 · answered by artqueen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If there's a will...there's a way. You will be able to manage both your house and office work if you will just put your heart to it added with your willingness to learn and good time management. It may not be instantly...but eventually ...you will. Just give it a try...I know that you will successfully cross the bridge when you'll get there. Good luck!!!
2006-12-08 21:29:54 · answer #6 · answered by dimma59 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it received't be a contest and if the fiance makes it so she will be in a position to maximum probable struggle through effects for making him opt for. moms and dads have particular well-known jobs as well as emotions for his or her toddlers and should be supported, no longer hindered. EDIT** As a 'fiance' you aren't from now on yet married and in truth might want to no longer be living at the same time - that's placing a foul party for his toddlers. the toddlers do no longer care about seeing their father in a relationship with a lady, maximum toddlers do no longer want that except it truly is with their own mom. a sparkling woman divides his time and if she is 'battling' for interest, that's even worse. you're with a guy with toddlers - won't be able to you as an individual on the least be sure out a thanks to save the peace?
2016-11-25 00:36:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surely the housework is therole of both of you. In our home we both do it. Your husband should wake up this is 2006 and not 1906. We are all equal. Sounds like he wants to be the lord of the manor where you are his servant. Sort this out before you get married. He wants you as a wife and unpaid housekeeper. If he will not help tell him to pay a housekeeper whilst you work full time.
2006-12-08 21:09:49 · answer #8 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, it's not that hard. And besides, if you go corporate you can hire a nanny / house cleaner to help around the house. That's what my family does.
If your husband insists you work, then you have him split the household chores for he will no longer be the sole breadwinner.
2006-12-08 21:14:08 · answer #9 · answered by Much too tired. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now days there are a lot of women that are married and working, even if its part time . you both are contributing to the marriage, it might be hard for you at first, you have to put it in your mind that you can do it and you will. don't give up. in time it will be a breeze for you and you won't be thinking like that anymore .
2006-12-09 00:21:54 · answer #10 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep working for your dad after the marriage, so you will have flexibility.
Lots of people do work from home so that the is less time spent commuting ....
It is referred to as tel-commuting.
2006-12-09 03:06:20 · answer #11 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋