She has insecurities. But she seriously might also be crazy. (Although I remind myself you all might be...) I love this girl, but she keeps me around, just close enough, but if I get too close, BAM! she's gone. Seriously, what do I do to see if she will commit? Asking hasn't worked. I am worried because I am starting to resent her indecision.
2006-12-08 20:54:38 · 10 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you need to cut ties and run. Maybe if you leave that will give her the incentive to change her mind. However, you are just showing her that you are a doormat. Plus, it sounds like she is not done playing the field and if she did commit, she might still have a wandering eye.
2006-12-08 20:57:13 · answer #1 · answered by bashnick 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly you may have to start dating other people and let her know about it . Watch how fast she will answer your commitment question.
for some reason when we ladies notice there are other possibilities and other potential competition we go mad! cause we always want to be number one to every guy of course depending on certain situations. So yeah try that on for size and you will get your answer. If she doesn't;t bite then move on she isn't interested.
2006-12-09 05:06:05 · answer #2 · answered by Wendy W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she really isn't interested in committing to a relationship.
If you really want to force the issue maybe you should offer to both start dating others while she makes up her mind. If after a while of that she still doesn't, then she just isn't that into you.
2006-12-09 05:07:00 · answer #3 · answered by AJ... Australia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she has been burned too many times- so when you get close- poof!! she is gone-and then if you end it she can say- see - he left- ur between a rock and a hard place- send her to counseling-w her issues-but reverse psycology may work- you can go and tell her you know where I am- and say bye!! and see if she approaches you-D
2006-12-09 05:02:58 · answer #4 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi some people don't know how to commit.Try asking her where she sees herself in 5 years and if you still in the picture,then you know how she feels.Otherwise,ask her to make a list of likes and dislikes about you'lls relationship and emotions.Do it in a romantic,yet playful way.I hope you ready aswell to find out yours so once the two of you swop papers,you'll know where you stand.Try it out and goodluck...
2006-12-09 05:08:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let things stay the way they are right now.She is still working it out in her concience and she definately likes you
2006-12-09 05:17:33 · answer #6 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's just playing you. Try not to call her or meet her for a while and see her reaction.
2006-12-09 05:14:52 · answer #7 · answered by milena_cub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same sord thing to me but it took a while in the end we actually got seroius thing going she just dosent know how to show she likes you
2006-12-09 04:59:55 · answer #8 · answered by girly_goth1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her. She'll understand your importance.
2006-12-09 05:14:37 · answer #9 · answered by LoL ! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her.
2006-12-09 04:57:22 · answer #10 · answered by PS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋