Before you type in about me just being a kid or what not, I'm shockingly 20 years old (not bad looking so I've been told) and have never asked a girl out or been on a date. It's a little embarrasing whenever the subject comes up at like family gatherings, and I'm sure some people assume I'm gay (I'm not). But I feel that I've waited so long, that it's too late for me to "get into the game."
PS - I don't have any real close friends to help me out with this.
2006-12-08 20:26:52 · 7 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u hv eye on beautifull woman ask her..because i think u r smart ..
2006-12-08 20:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well online dating has its pros and cons, but its a place to start if you are trustworthy. There are lots of sites where you can find people just like you that have the same shyness and lack of experience.
Depending on where you live, urban or rural, you can also make yourself seen. I'm not a strong proponent for that though. Just make sure you keep up your appearance, and be who you are. There is no sense in fronting. But keeping up how you look is like the peacock that fluffs its feather to impress its mate. It's all part of the human ritual.
Do what you would normally do. Even if that means going to libraries. Just stop going to the local one and go to the large city one. If your interested in someone, strike up a conversation. Just try to keep it liberal and try and strike up a conversation with the intent of being friends. Most of my girlfriends in the past were originally known through friendships.
2006-12-09 04:31:09 · answer #2 · answered by ☺ PeeJ ☺ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm 16 and kind of in the same situation. I've asked girls out though but they have reasons for saying no.Next time you meet a girl you like get as much courage as you can and ask her out. Please don't write her a letter or anything else, this will lower your chanches of her saying yes. So walk up to her and ask her out and if u have 2 practice it b4 doing it dont b embarrassed many ppl practice asking some1 out. It may not come out how u want it 2 but atleast u asked. Good Luck!
2006-12-09 04:33:16 · answer #3 · answered by sterlingscorpion11690 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell me! :o)
Do you have an eye on a woman that you like? If so, why don't you ask her out on a date. Like dinner and movies.
Good luck!
2006-12-09 04:32:59 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think its never to late you got to get out there and ask girls out and come out of your shell
2006-12-09 04:31:29 · answer #5 · answered by girly_goth1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to the girl and say "Hey baby...wanna come back to my place and watch me slay the dragon?" I assure you my friend, it works every time.
2006-12-09 04:29:07 · answer #6 · answered by shade.meow 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u just ask the girl out for movies, walk, dinner, etc.
the rest i dont know. im 14.
2006-12-09 04:29:34 · answer #7 · answered by blingding 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋