The thing is I don't want to treat the girl I have a one night stand with badly. Is there away to tell a girl that your really attracted to them, but all you want is sex, because I would feel guilty about getting a girl drunk, and making her feel like crap after wards. What do I do. I don't have much experience with girls, would a girl be ok with a one night stand if we got to know each other and liked each other. Or are girls not like that where as guys are? please help.
2006-12-08 20:21:43 · 14 answers · asked by V For Vendetta 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know I am not the type to do this. It is just I have been single for a very long time. And all the girls I fall in love with are either not interested or seing someone.
2006-12-08 20:41:29 · update #1
and I don't want my first time to be with a prostitute.
2006-12-08 20:48:08 · update #2
Depends I spose.U could go to a pub or club and see if anything happens naturally.
Some girls will,some girls won't.Some girls need a lot of loving,Some girls don't.... I don't know why. Some girls say they will, and some girls lie.
If you are a travelling man, try Bangkok in Thailand. They have a different attitude to one night stands there. Whatever you choose make sure it is safe!
2006-12-08 20:30:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guess it would depend on the girl. But most girls I know would not be ok with that.You could try a dating site called Lava Life. There are are 3 chioces:relationship,dating,and intimate incounters.
Intimate incounters will give you exactly what you are looking for.
2006-12-09 04:26:46 · answer #2 · answered by doshidoe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go out with abunch of friends and go to clubs and bars,, lot's of wild girls,, and college parties are best too. Girls getting drunk and you slapping their butt and stuff. I had many one night stands during those days and hard drinking with some dancing the 19-25ish crowd, yeah you will be on your way to one night stands. Otherwise, trust me pal, the "I don't want to treat them badly" is not going to get you anywhere.
REMEBER, 3 key things: LOTS OF DRINKS,,DANCING,,,18-23 crowd. Oh and don't show up by yourself.
2006-12-09 04:30:25 · answer #3 · answered by chaseki 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I really don't think you should have your first time with a one night stand.They always make people feel cheap and unclean afterwards.
But if you still want to go ahead.Just go out clubbing.Chat to some people and see what happens.
2006-12-09 05:27:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are honest from the start you shouldn't hurt anyone's feelings.
Just tell her you are wary of relationships & are really only interested in the short term stuff.
2006-12-09 04:29:31 · answer #5 · answered by AJ... Australia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2014-11-07 12:22:06 · answer #6 · answered by Bob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you are honest and up front with her, she may agree most girls don't want a relationship just want some loving, not all girls, good luck don't forget your jimmy hat.
2006-12-09 04:28:25 · answer #7 · answered by Evi 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you don't seem to be the kind of guy for a one night stand you would become attached
2006-12-09 04:26:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like to much of a nice guy to do this...listen carefully to wot is in yr heart...it will guide you...
2006-12-09 04:25:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask baby ask,,,some peolpe like no strings,,the worse they can say is NO
2006-12-09 05:50:33 · answer #10 · answered by sophie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋