been in love with an older woman who makes you feel like you're the best thing in life yet she has another boyfriend who she refuses to give up?! He lives 2 hours away and she doesnt see him very often ,she's known him for years and assures me that nothing serious will ever develop between them,but even so when she goes to see him it breaks my heart,she says she loves me so how is it she wont be with just me?What should I do?
2006-12-08 20:16:24 · 6 answers · asked by GMAN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she has her own house but stays with me at my kouse 99.9% of the time.We get along really great and always find things to talk about.I believe she loves me yet this other guy thing gets to me.
2006-12-08 20:39:37 · update #1
this sounds like a friend to me, otherwise i think she would tell you. you dont say how old you are. if there is a huge gap then possibly you are getting mixed messages from her. i would trust her uless she gives me reason not to. think about it, if she goes to all the effort to make you feel like you are the best thing since sliced bread, why would she invest time and enery doing this, and i have no doubt you would have picked up on the fact that she is a low life if she wa, which by the sounds of it she is not, relax mate and enjoy her for who she is...
2006-12-08 20:23:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'r situation is very wierd!
Personally I would never give my heart to a two timing.....!
And I think she lies about loving you as well!
You deserve better man!
2006-12-08 20:28:33 · answer #2 · answered by nymph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats pretty specific. does he have to live two hours away? She seduced you and is playing you. and you are tooling along. If she was youre age or younger would you let her get away with going on trips to see her boyfriend. no you would not! She is getting away with it cause she owns you. tell her to get f**ked
2006-12-08 20:17:46 · answer #3 · answered by fuck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i ended up marrying a girl 12 years older than me and it took her a while to dump here old husband all i did was get a young girlfriend and she got pissed at her and then we got exclusive so i guess i used that other girl but love will forgive us right????
OH YEAH AND PLUS THERE IS NOTHING BETTER THAN HAVING 2 GIRLS AT ONCE
2006-12-08 20:21:43 · answer #4 · answered by J-Dub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it feels that you're being used, like your're the spare tyre. she wants your company thats all.. if she loves you she wouldn't refuse to give up her other boyfriend.. sorry i'm harsh with words.. no offence :)
2006-12-08 20:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by Claire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no and I have no idea how toi resolve your problem..
2006-12-08 20:18:49 · answer #6 · answered by chiefof nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋