why are most women emotionally f' cked up! now i know what your gonna say "cause men put you there", and in some cases i can believe that. but when you go out to the clubs and let the first guy you meet buy you a drink..and you know your not interested but you do him anyway.. i don't get it? seriously im starting to think it was never about the guy in the first place. in fact i believe most women are straved for attention, whether it comes from a male or female. thats why you always see females on "myspace" always talking about how other b#tches are always jealous of them. jealous of what! theres tons of booty pics on my space enuff to go around. have you ever stop to think maybe guys wouldn't treat you like crap if most of you would have some respect for yourself. if your idea of havin' a good time is dressin' up like a whore and actin' like one , most men will take you up on that offer. guys who want a real relationship will find you if your real. the world doesn't owe you nothin!
2006-12-08 20:06:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you need to re-evaluate what type of women you are associating yourself with. There are messed up people out there all over the place - women AND men. Everyone likes attention, but the ways they go about getting attention may not be favorable. I think with women, it's mostly about self esteem. We live in a looks-oriented, sex-crazed society. Many women act in the way they THINK men want them to act to gain their acceptance, when in reality most men don't respect these type of women. People with myspace accounts are mainly younger and perhaps immature and they certainly don't account for the majority of the people out there. If you are looking for a mature, respectable woman stop looking in the wrong places!!
2006-12-08 20:15:33 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woman experience a higher level of emotions unlike many men who lock it up.Yes they get insecure especially with the things people say.It affects self esteem and saying things like dressing like a whore,doesnt help!When you dress up dont you want to look good.Well men are attracted to revealing tops,short skirts and boots.So when you want to attract a man,why not wear the things you men look for?But whats more upsetting is the fact that when you dress like that,you're automatically classed as a whore.Is there a problem with the way you see things perhaps?!
2006-12-08 20:57:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are noticing the players because they are more up front and IN YOUR FACE... they are marketing themselves so you naturally see that more.
The reserved, shy and self-respecting ones are not going for quantity, they are going for quality, so they dont need to advertise so much or at all.
Their needs are less...1 relationship for life...and they bypass the meat markets and garbage dumps you have located.
Anyway, dont sweat over all that. You only need one. One is a beautiful number.
These players are all ZEROS. They have nothing of value and they will end up with nothing of value.
Hope this helps!
LOVE
There is no time limit. Love can come in 1 second or it may take 50 years.
But love has a quality. If the quality is there then it is love, Even after 100 years, if the quality is not there then it is not love. It is not a matter of time.
LOVE means that you only have a desire to make your object of love happy without any selfish personal desire. Love is selfless.
That is quite a tall order to fulfill, but when it is there, it is there and you have it!
If you are trying to satisfy yourself in the relationship then you are under the influence of lust, anger, greed, etc. It is not pure love.
PURE LOVE means unmotivated and uninterrupted. 24X7 I think of you.
Pure love is even devoid of sex desire, though you may reciprocate sexually with your object of love to please them. When you have pure exclusive love for someone then you are essentially desireless. You only desire their happiness and their happiness is the source of your happiness--to the point that if they become happy by giving you distress, then you will take your own distress as your greatest happiness...because it makes them happy.
These are very elavated concepts of love and not ordinarily attainable on the material platform.
These are generally realized in our eternal personal relationship with God, who is really the only one worthy of such a high degree of love, and even then it is rarely attained.
Hope this helps!
2006-12-08 20:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by TransformYour.World 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emotionally f'cked up?! What did you expect from buying/meeting women in clubs? Men are just as brutal as women when it comes to mind games & club scenes, sounds to me like your ego got kicked to the curb 'cause you "LOOKIN FOR LOVE IN ALL THE WRONG PLACES". If you're lookin for a serious relationship there are church singles groups, and many dating services that you could check out. Now as for women posting booty pics on myspace,..hmmm...I can direct you to one that will show men posting pics of their booties..
2006-12-08 20:53:24 · answer #4 · answered by pacificapride 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Part of it is hormons and part of it is learned behavoir.
Part of it is the inabliity to communicate effectivly.
We assume that men read our mind. We say yes and expect our man to KNOW we mean yes. We think men will rescue us and when they don't we fall apart. We let our minds race and we jump from one subject to another then comoplain when no one understands us. (the greatest things I learned from a past bf was that I needed to choose one subject and talk slow, and then he can communicate with me, and it works!)
As women we want to have more attention than most men know how to give. We are treated like little princesses then we get out on our own and wonder where daddy is. We over extend ourselves in work and home and then wonder why we fall apart emotionally, phyically. We have unrealistic expectations for ourself and those around us. We have forgotten how to smell the roses. I personally early on learned to give and give until I was angry and bitter and resentful (I unlearned that about 30 years ago) I learned that to take care of those I love I needed to take care of myself and that doesn't mean to be selfish. There are some women who EXPECT to be taken care of or that they are intitled to things not so important in the scheem of life.
When I mean "we" I am not pointing a finger, I am just talking generally.
Also....here is maybe one simple answer...We are like this becuase you guys let us be like that.
This is an answer I gave to another question. I just felt that it might apply here.....
2006-12-08 20:14:58 · answer #5 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-03 09:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you just have a bad experience with a woman?
2006-12-08 20:08:59 · answer #7 · answered by Sunrise 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause all women know that they are only here to serve their man as it says in the bible and they are pist off bout it
2006-12-08 20:08:45 · answer #8 · answered by J-Dub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U are right!
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2006-12-08 20:10:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-08 20:09:22 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋