okay im still a virgin and im happy about it because that means i ahve great willpower but lately ive been so tempted and i believe im ready ive read up on everything and im as safe as you can possibly get and ive got someone whos the same except a bit more exprienced. so what do u guys propose i do get down our save it.
2006-12-08 20:05:09 · 11 answers · asked by slanted eye cutiepie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LOVE
There is no time limit. Love can come in 1 second or it may take 50 years.
But love has a quality. If the quality is there then it is love, Even after 100 years, if the quality is not there then it is not love. It is not a matter of time.
LOVE means that you only have a desire to make your object of love happy without any selfish personal desire. Love is selfless.
That is quite a tall order to fulfill, but when it is there, it is there and you have it!
If you are trying to satisfy yourself in the relationship then you are under the influence of lust, anger, greed, etc. It is not pure love.
PURE LOVE means unmotivated and uninterrupted. 24X7 I think of you.
Pure love is even devoid of sex desire, though you may reciprocate sexually with your object of love to please them. When you have pure exclusive love for someone then you are essentially desireless. You only desire their happiness and their happiness is the source of your happiness--to the point that if they become happy by giving you distress, then you will take your own distress as your greatest happiness...because it makes them happy.
These are very elavated concepts of love and not ordinarily attainable on the material platform.
These are generally realized in our eternal personal relationship with God, who is really the only one worthy of such a high degree of love, and even then it is rarely attained.
Hope this helps!
Lust will never satisfy you. Save it for the guy you love after marriage.
2006-12-08 20:19:15 · answer #1 · answered by TransformYour.World 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save it, there's no reason to give that sort of thing to someone who doesn't deserve it... How many V's has this guy you have all lined up taken away? Did he deserve it?
I'm still a virgin and I'm going to remain that way until I find the right guy and marry him, my virginity is one of his wedding presents in a way... He knows that I've waited for him and not given any other guy this gift before he got it.
It's so much safer... Even though you think you're safe, you're never REALLY safe from STDs, I'd say keep it safe and just keep it to yourself.
2006-12-08 20:09:09 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Cliff 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 08:02:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one's ever died from temptation. Millions are dying of AIDS. I guess it's a no-brainer. Here's another way to look at it...once you give away your gift, you can't ever get it back. Wouldn't it be the greatest gift ever if you could give it to your husband on your wedding night? Just something to think about. <*)))><
2006-12-08 20:10:16 · answer #4 · answered by Sandylynn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save it... there are far too many girls who just give it up these days... save it for marriage, and make sure you marry the RIGHT guy.
Just remember, a bar or club is no where to meet your husband... but it is a good place to pick up an STD.
2006-12-08 20:08:04 · answer #5 · answered by Ozymandias 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it won't kill you if you save it until you find the guy you want to marry. read here and see all the relationships falling apart or already over. just wait and just say "no".
2006-12-08 20:07:41 · answer #6 · answered by sinned 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if nothing else exchange oral with them. You will most likely be more satisfied that way anyhow. Sex isnt all its cracked up to be but oral rules
2006-12-08 20:10:16 · answer #7 · answered by J-Dub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save it man, save it save it save it. I'm right there with you.
2006-12-08 20:15:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's your decision, do whatever the hell you want. just go with your instincts, that always works.
2006-12-08 20:07:52 · answer #9 · answered by Travis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT!!!!!
2006-12-08 20:10:29 · answer #10 · answered by chiefof nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋