Girls say they cant find any1. Well i'm not really ugly and I have 3 sis. so I understand girls pretty good. I'm nice and caring but the girls I like have some reason they cant date me and girls that like me I'm not really attracted to. ANY and ALL advice would be helpful.
2006-12-08 19:56:22 · 20 answers · asked by sterlingscorpion11690 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this usually takes me a half hour to type out but here it is in the nut shell.. first, nothing wrong with you... your fine, normal or what ever.. and your day will come.. this is what is going on I believe.
People give off vibes, signals from teh body kind of thing.. some boys or girls attract alot of the other sex and some only attract a few out of the herd... and this isn't a bad thing.... you just have to find the same kind of girl that is looking for you...
like a fish, some girls will swim over too "sparklies" , shinny things that attract them.. just the way they are.. and the guys are the shinny things but some girls won't go after that... they are looking for something more then just, "shinny and sparkly" boy, so they sit back and wait... they wait for a boy that is interesting, sure, funny, nice to be around and has the body signal that they will take care of them... and then they will come around... sorry to say there arn't that man of them kind of girls.. but when you can find one, they are the keepers.
So, you are looking for girls that are harder to find then the flashy girl which usually turn out to be shallow... and they are looking for a boy that isn't flashy and harder to find cause he has something too offer rather then just flash....
so your girl is out there... just be patient and understand what is going on .. it's not against you... it's actually about you, finding you the best girl for YOU and HER ... so...
hope this helped... kind of wordy, just do what your suppose to do, school, education etc.. and she will come around.. oh.. take some music lessons or what ever... just to keep you interesting.....
2006-12-08 20:07:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are a whole lot of reasons girls wouldn't be attracted to you other than because you are being nice.
You have a terrific resource in your sisters. Use it. And their friends. They should be able to tell you just what the sort of girls you are interested in are looking for in a guy. Most like well mannered, but they also like clean, well spoken & nicely dressed ones. Looks are generally not as important to girls as are confidence, good teeth and concise speech. Clothes taste helps and for goodness sake, don't drag your mate around on dates with you. The amount of guys who get dropped for that one! :)
It is very important to be yourself and not try to be someone you are not, and also to be someone who is not trying too hard. Most girls respect that. We all have the same problem really, girl or guy, in the end - we all want to find someone for understands and respects us for what we are. And quite frankly if they don't, they aren't worth having.
2006-12-08 20:19:15 · answer #2 · answered by AJ... Australia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, here you ask a direct question and what have you gotten, but a bunch of shallow, clueless answers from both girls and men?
I really think that a lot of them don't like decent, down-to-earth sorts of men, and a lot of them misinterpret goodness as weakness, though this is something that goes on in their minds and they won't admit it, not even anonymously on a board such as this.
If someone acts like the Fonz, that's usually the sorts of phonies they'll go for over someone who's sensible and talks plainly. They'll construe that as weakness or somehow unexciting, guaranteed.
I never have women looking at me, but one day I happened to be riding a motorcycle years ago, and one waved. That's how shallow they tend to be.
2006-12-08 20:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The stereotype answer: you are looking in the wrong way.Lol..the truth:it doesnt matter how you look like or how much u understand them as long as u dont have "that thing".Besides, you are not dead yet, so keep hoping..:)btw..get laid for some time with no strings attached then things will loosen up..:)
2006-12-08 20:03:16 · answer #4 · answered by Zbenguici 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to pray to God to give you a person who will connect with you. For the time being treasure the tips and lessons you learn now cos you might need them when she comes along
2006-12-08 20:01:54 · answer #5 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are a sweet guy and don't worry u'll definitely find someone its just a matter of time that u'll find ur match.
2006-12-08 20:02:34 · answer #6 · answered by tiya_ahuja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find her, don't worry about it!! If you keep stressing and getting upset about it then you will never be happy, and you will find that person when you least expect it! Don't be unhappy! Enjoy life!
2006-12-08 19:58:40 · answer #7 · answered by Gurilie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try not to concentrate on finding someone... just enjoy life and eventually that special girl will come to you... im sure of it. good luck!
2006-12-08 20:03:51 · answer #8 · answered by apple martini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your sisters why and ask their friends why. Unless they're all too young to know what you're talking about.
2006-12-08 20:02:30 · answer #9 · answered by Just Chillin' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CAN'T GET A DATE?
SURE YOU CAN......
JUS ASK UR THREE SISTERS not yahooians.
change ur appearence and your attitude.
wear clean clothes.
ask any girl randomly out.
if she says yes,good for you.If not good for her......
but it depends....
much dates,more experiences....
have some kind of a makeover...
2006-12-08 20:01:26 · answer #10 · answered by leemathersforu 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋