Need advice calling a girl?

Question

Okay so this chick gave me her phone number and it's been well over three days. I'm not good at talking and saying hi is not my strong suit. So what should i say?

Well i've called chicks and they don't remember me and i feel like such a ditz. They say who? and then Oh yeah, you!

Answer 1

My opinion is dont meet dumb girls. But to call up one you should say, "Hey, ___, what's going on? This is ___ from ___ and I am so glad to have met you because I have this feeling about you. (even if you dont) I got to thinking and I wanted to know if you would join me to dinner (or other place), it's just you and me, so we can talk and get to know each other better." (Movies are a horrible first date, you cant get to know the person at all)

You can make the call as long as you like, but if you make it short and sweet so you can have more to talk about at dinner. Make sure you compliment her. When you meet up with her, or even on the phone "I loved the way you did your hair on thursday" Women are suckers for compliments.

If it gets silent or u can't think of anything to say, you can either learn or share... Ask her about what she's wearing example: that's an awesome necklace, where did you find something so beautiful? (you complimented her, too) Or look around the place your at for something you know about or an experience you had with it. "The last time I saw one of these....."

You dont really have to have an important topic to talk about. You just have to make it interesting. It's like the papers you wrote in high school. They were about some bogus thing they told you to write about, but to make the A, you had to write it well, to make the reader want to read it.

I just thought of an easy way to talk to her. Ask her to tell you a story about something she did.

Write me if you need any more help.

Good luck.

Answer 2

Well from what I can tell obviously you would like to see her again, otherwise you would not be wanting to call her.

The best thing I can recommend first is to relax - she gave you her number obviously because she likes you! Also, call her ASAP so she doesn't get the wrong idea.

The best thing I can recommend phone call wise is to obviously say hello and ask her how she is going. (Don't forget she will be saying hello first when she answers her phone so that should make it a little easier for you)

Believe me girls are pretty good talkers (even though chances are she will be just as nervous as you) so keep this in mind and hopefully she can keep the conversation flowing.

Before you hang up make sure to ask her if she wants to catch up for a movie etc sometime this week/whenever is good for her.

And like I said before - relax as much as you can before calling - she will be looking forward to hearing from you!

GOOD LUCK!

Answer 3

Don't give them the chance to Not remember you. When they answer and you know it is them, say hi this is "so and so" remember I met you "where ever" or I met you on "such a day" at "what ever place" If these girls are like me or anyone for that matter, remembering names are hard for me! But if you tell them who you are and where they met you then how can they not remember?
Let me tell you something saying "Oh yeah you!" is just being a bi*ch! and trying to sound like Oh theres soooo many guys!!!!! Ignore that shi*!

Answer 4

well you have to call her, and when u do, give reasons why u didn't call her all this while, and after which you ask he if it would be possible for you two to have a date, cos u don't need to start asking her about herself on the phone.

So on the day of the date, thats when you will ask her about herself and tell her tht you will really wann get to know more about her.

You have to tell her about yourself too and try to talk about Life,The area in which you stay and other stuff like School, what she would want to become and you too. Good Luck

Answer 5

Hi sorry I didnt call earlier because I was a bit nervous. Do you fancy going out with me next weekend or whenever. I told my friends about you and I told them I fancied you. Im been slagged by them ever since.. Where do you live ?? Cool thats a nice area. ( It will be a two way conversation from there on dude ) Dont be tense it will be cool. Best of luck..

Answer 6

Text her. and then after a bit youll naturally get comfortable with her and then u can act yourself and you wont feel like you have to plan out what your gonna say on the phone. Thats one way

Answer 7

dont wait too long to call her-

but just call and give the general how are you?
what have you been up to-
and if conversation doesnt get started you can fall back on what i call favorites.

like whats your fav kind of food..ask about her life in general- and sisters... youll hit something she really wants to tlak about and that youre interested in too.

but dont make it come off like an interview.

Answer 8

just say hi how r u? what u doin? then take it from there and just start talking about anything like u can't shut up for a min., and make believe your talking to your best friend. then give her some time to talk

Answer 9

just be yourself & try to let her do all the talking with you saying every now and then( yes ,i guess so , really , how nice , dont think so ) you know thes words that you can answer any questin with . and once you get to know her things will be much easier and words wil run out on their own
wish you the best of luck

Answer 10

Just call her, and say Hello and ask how she is doing!!!.. ask her for coffee or something, (it is easier to talk to ppl in person i think)
just keep it short, and relax.. It will be ok!

good luck!