my bf has invited me over to stay at his house im 17 and my parents are dont like me realy going out to friends place and cause i think im gona rome the street and get pergent wich i dont cause im not like that and wana go to bfs house and i want them to let me and be cool about it i havent told yet thow
2006-12-08 19:42:40 · 7 answers · asked by girly_goth1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but its for his mums wedding
2006-12-08 19:48:40 · update #1
i thought my mom wouldn't be cool about it either, and i was 14 when i stayed the night at my boyfriends house (which saying that now sounds really weird and REALLY young, because now im 18) but i lied the first time, and i felt really bad, b/c i can't lie to my mom, so i asked her and she was totally cool with it. she talked to his parents and made everything clear with them and that was that. I asked her how she was so cool with it and she just said, well if i say no, i know that you would just do it anyway and lie, so by giving me permission and having the understandings between his parents and her then she everything would be safer that way... but my mom and i are very close, and like i said i don't lie to her, and she gives me all the trust in the world and to this day i could never break that, it would break my heart. AND my boyfriend and i are still together as well. Just talk to your parents, and maybe tell them that they should trust you until you give them a reason not to. Have them talk to his parents also, maybe it'll work out for you too :)
2006-12-08 20:00:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u should lsiten to ur parents cause they tell what is right for u and they don't want u to have a baby when ur a baby ursefl and stuff like that
i know everyone thinks like that they'll never get pargenet but what if the guy uses drugs intoo making u sleep with him and u get pragenet and stuff like that.
2006-12-08 19:45:57 · answer #2 · answered by Hally berry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be best to tell your parents .Tell them that they brought you up to know right from wrong and that you will show them the respect they deserve for having brought you up that you will never let any boy or man take advantage of you because your love for them is real too.
2006-12-08 19:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay home and work on your grammar and spelling skills instead.
17 is far too young to be having sex and YES, that is EXACTLY what your boyfriend intends to do by inviting you over, trust me.
2006-12-08 19:45:09 · answer #4 · answered by Last Ent Wife (RCIA) 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ur parents are right u are too young to handle a baby so be a good girl and listen to them sweety
2006-12-08 19:49:38 · answer #5 · answered by tiya_ahuja 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go if you want to...but you must know your limitations...sometimes it's just good to go for our paren't's advice...they know best....when you do otherwise...it leads to your downfall and destruction...then you'll just realized when it's too late....
2006-12-08 19:47:07 · answer #6 · answered by krung2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont go. he just wanted you to have sex with him.
2006-12-08 19:46:03 · answer #7 · answered by AutumnMemoirs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋