He is wonderful to me. I thought i loved him but i'm not sure. He's been so hurtful to me in the past during rows, I dont know if I can forgive him for the things he's said. I'm constantly thinking I can do better, but we have a house together, with furniture and a good life together. I just don't what to do.. carry on being 'comfortable' but unhappy or try to seek my real-life companion? Which could be a major risk - I could lose the life I have.
2006-12-08 19:14:22 · 6 answers · asked by Frankie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it seems as if you've already lost your life. you seem so unhappy and the source from what i read is the jerk you are with. if you want to continue to just exist then, you'll stay where you are but if you are ready to truly live, and experience joy and peace of mind you have to make a move. yes, it will be difficult but so is enduring constant pain inflicted by someone who says they love you. you say your not sure if you love him anymore, well hopefully you love yourself enough to do what you have to do for you. i hope it works out for you and I'm praying for you.
2006-12-08 19:29:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in a relationship with a guy for a year and seven months.I only use to see him once in two weeks,he was an alcoholic and recovering drug addict and had this tendancy to lie about everything.He too said horrible things to me, but I stayed with him because I thought I loved him and he loved me too.But in the end everything builds up and you won't be able to take anymore.I didn't want to leave him because I putt SO much time and effort in to our relationship, but nothing and no one is worth making you feel that way about yourself.Get out before your love for each other turns in to hate.
2006-12-09 03:27:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE YOURSELF and know you are the most important person in your life and only you can make you happy. The things you mention are material things which don't cause happiness, they fill a void - that of you finding the one who will love u and respect you through his actions and words, you deserve to be happy so pray on it and let it go - do you and be happy! God bless you
2006-12-09 03:18:40 · answer #3 · answered by Fabulous Divaness 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try to tell him about his weakness and still if he don't change better get separated on place of suffering your hole life , if life is good house and other things will come again.
2006-12-09 03:21:21 · answer #4 · answered by lucky s 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should find someone else...!
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2006-12-09 03:18:08 · answer #5 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like u need to move on
2006-12-09 03:19:50 · answer #6 · answered by sandy k 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋