theres this dude that i like his always in the library at lunch reading, yesterday he was in there doing work but we were tapping on the window to get his attention but he doesnt even look at us he totally ingores us and so we tapped really hard and they moved him to the other side of the library i guess he got in trouble... today i thought he wouldnt be sitting in the same seat because he got in trouble but he did... so we tapped again slowly but he payed no attention he was smiling while reading and then me and my friends put I LOVE YOU on this paper and put it in the window and he still didnt look up my friend said he did for a bit but i didnt see him lol and then we went in the library and i we were talking loud so he heard us say how i love him and i cant tell him how much i love him because i start shaking he smiled and then lunch was over and he left... does he like me?
i dont think so i am very hurt...
btw he doesnt have friends i always see him alone maybe his shy?
2006-12-08 19:09:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
plus if he didnt like me tapping and looking at him he wouldnt have sat at the same place right?
2006-12-08 19:09:59 · update #1
ohh my god your question so reminds me of me and my girlfriend when we have meant we were so both too shy for our own good but i've been shy my whole life lol.just my's well go over and say hi and maybe your name too. if he starts studdering that means he really likes you and thinks your good looking but maybe he thinks he wont sound cool enough or smart enough for you so just take it slow for now with the conversation and remeber he's a human being with feelings thats sensative just as yours FYI some guys like to play the tough guy act beacuse they are really sensative under the hard guy act and remeber your TRUE friends will be their for you NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO AND I MEAN NO MATTER WHAT but if they wont they just want you around just beacuse your a pretty face or you know all the interisting people and if he was sitting reading and smiling yeah it sounds like he's shy enough for the both of you its totally cool and ok for the girl to make the first move besides its the guy that makes the first move YEARS down the road or when ever you choose to pop the question about marriage. im 23 years old take it from me its not easy being a shy guy to this day im still a lil shy some guys no matter how old they are will always be shy because some girls are verry bueatiful and the guy ask himself what could she want with an ulgy or an almost alright guy like me so just remeber to breath and if you shake so what it will only be that way untill you get a talking even me and my girlfriend were shaking when we first meant its a completey normal reaction dont let it eat you away thinking of what may have been best just to get down to it instead of NEVER KNOWING WHAT COULD HAVE HAPPEND. (GOOD LUCK)
2006-12-08 19:33:15 · answer #1 · answered by soki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a possibility that he likes the attention, but one mistake that girls make is when they bring "friends" with them to flirt with a guy. dont you know that, thats the worst thing that u could do? try going "into" the library next time and going"over" to the guy and actually talking to him by YOURSELF. not with a big brigade of homegirls... thats so 4th grade. it seems as if a couple of your friends may like him as well.... try being the only one who tries something different, and maybe, just maybe he will start talking to you.
2006-12-08 19:16:56 · answer #2 · answered by apple martini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he dose like you ,but he is trying to study his school work like you should be,maybe he is studying to get a good job so he can buy you lots of nice things,he dosnt wont to end up on the streets like you will if you dont start and study ,you will be bare foot and pregnant and then he wont even look at you .ok so dont push the guy ok
2006-12-08 19:18:31 · answer #3 · answered by shell girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea he could be shy but you need to try a more adult go up to him by your self and a just talk to him like hi im ______ whats your name
i try to stay away from imacher girls that get a little crazy around me i like more girls that can be self controlled good luck
2006-12-08 19:17:34 · answer #4 · answered by Ace_Spade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smells like teen spirit...
2006-12-08 19:23:29 · answer #5 · answered by Peep STyLL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes not interested
2006-12-08 19:13:58 · answer #6 · answered by sandy k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋