i had a boyfriend 2 years ago..he leave me for another girl..then i try to couple with another man but i'm still remember my ex-boyfriend.then i leave my boyfriend because i can't trust him although sometimes i felt he is a nice man..
2006-12-08 19:06:36 · 14 answers · asked by tac 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know it is hard to trust someone after getting hurt.. but the fact still remains that you cant live like that forever. it wouldnt hurt if you trust someone especially a guy once in a while. just remember this one relationships is based on love understanding, etc.. and not on trust alone. go ahead. and if you got hurt again then stand up and say you did nothing wrong and live once again
2006-12-08 19:14:02 · answer #1 · answered by AutumnMemoirs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok let me tell you from experience - you go through things which at the time seem like hell but the goodness on the other side of the tunnel is well worth it. I know it is hard but don't penalize a man for the mistakes of another. You could be pasing up your blessing in disguise. It happened to me after my ex-fiance left me and married another woman I found the man of my dreams and haven't been happier. and as for the ex fiance oh he is so miserable and begging to be back with me so girl move on and know in the end the guy who messed up will get his!!!! Good Luck
2006-12-08 19:15:48 · answer #2 · answered by Fabulous Divaness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are the same,....if a man really adores you and your his "baby", then you have nothing to fear...just remember, Ted Bundy was a "nice man" on the surface....you'll know when you can...if your not sure, 100% sure, don't EVER let your guard down...if you trust him, your actions looking back should reflect on it, ...cuz it will come natural. And if your asking if there are any worthy of being trusted whole-heartedly, the answer is Yes, there are. God love 'em.
2006-12-08 19:17:07 · answer #3 · answered by jakkibluu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After every relationship you need a closure.You can either do it with the ex boyfriend where you resolve your issues for future reference or you can do it yourslef.Write down everything that happened in the previous relationship including when you sensed he was moving on. It only then that you can forgive yourself and ex boyfriend(find it in your heart to forgive him) Give yourself a healing period. This will make you to start trusting yourself and then trust other people. This does not mean you need to trust fully.
2006-12-08 19:13:55 · answer #4 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem here, believe it or not, is from your own insecurities. All men aren't bad even if it is hard to find a good man. You must face the reality that you may be cheated on or used, but please get out of an abusive relationship as soon as possible if you ever find yourself in one. It may take a while to find a good man but they are out there. You also should not blame all men for something one or two men may have done if you do. I wish you luck in finding that good man for you.
2006-12-08 19:17:18 · answer #5 · answered by sterlingscorpion11690 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust yourself first, then all else will fall into place. Try and remember that it's not about the possibility of being hurt, but the possibility of being loved.........
2006-12-08 19:44:50 · answer #6 · answered by cub6ib9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never trust a man. The time when it is ok for you to trust a man is the time that you dont have to ask stupid questions like the one you just asksed. And even then DONT!!!!!! lol
2006-12-08 19:10:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
As hard as it may be for you, you can't let the past relationship ruin your current or future ones...not all guys are bad, you just have to be careful who you date.
2006-12-08 19:10:13 · answer #8 · answered by Renee B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are in all likelihood some honest ones accessible, yet additionally are in all likelihood as complicated to discover as a very good mechanic. i think of they in all likelihood tell the reality approximately 0.5 the time, yet who's conscious of which 0.5 to have confidence? be conscious I mentioned "in all likelihood" lots.
2016-10-18 00:31:10 · answer #9 · answered by kigar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love someone deeply!!you will trust him!!i think you never loved any of them truly!!true love believes everything!!!ask your self was your first love!!a love from both sides you & him!!if yes why did that happen!!!?and your recent if he loves you!!!why cant you trust him!!!!?i think you dont love him that much!!!give your self a chance to think it over!!!to love is nothing, to be loved is something,to love & be loved is everything!!!take a rest & think!!you are still injured!!
2006-12-08 19:14:52 · answer #10 · answered by donia f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋