My bf has been really distant with me and i havent seen him in over a week now. He has hardly been in touch. He called me other day and said he was having probs with his daughter,but i thought well,you could have let me know before now,i mean what is it to send a quick txt to let me know what was going on?I was thinking today about txting him to see what he's upto because i heard him on phone a while ago asking to meet up this saturday for lunch so i'm a bit suspicious about that aswell. Should i send him txt or wait til he runs to me but i want to see if he lies or nt about this lunch meeting i heard?
2006-12-08 18:53:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds to me as though his heart is likely not as into your relationship as you'd like. If you were truely a high priority to him, He would want to talk to you & keep you in the loop.
Probably not what you wanted to hear, but thats kinda what it sounds like to me. Good Luck...
2006-12-08 19:02:51 · answer #1 · answered by Justin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be a little suspicious myself...how long have you been together? Could he be planning to surprise you somehow? I don't see why you shouldn't text him...If you don't want to sound like you're being "needy or suspicious" just ask him how things are w/ his daughter (since he said he was having problems w/ her)...good luck!
2006-12-08 18:59:07 · answer #2 · answered by Renee B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is in Iraq top now. while he first went over there he had his AT&T telephone with him. It wasn't long in the previous he have been given a bill for over $2000. they're going to charge you for the roaming like 50 cents a min. additionally they charge you while all of us calls his telephone...no remember if or no longer he solutions it. i understand that sounds stupid yet thats what the AT&T people advised me. Have him end employing his cellular telephone. telephone taking part in cards are plenty extra low fee..or he can get an Iraqi cellular telephone over there. If I have been you i could flow and get his telephone yet on militia suspension with the telephone agency so which you dont get hit with the huge bill!
2016-12-30 04:25:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you feel like he's being dishonest with you, that you have a reason not to trust him. That is not easy one, you could trust your intuition - let it go for a while, turn things around if your strong enough. If he's hiding something from you, asking for honesty is pointless.
2006-12-08 19:03:19 · answer #4 · answered by eva h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you just need "me" time and maybe that's the case. Kids can be very stressful and tiring ( I have 3) so just givehim some time and maybe his lunch date is with someone who understands and can relate to what he is going through. u don't mention if you have kids or not but i take it you don't or you would understand. you act like he is your man get a grip girl
2006-12-08 18:58:14 · answer #5 · answered by Fabulous Divaness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him a text to see how he reponds. May have someone else keeping him busy.
2006-12-08 18:56:55 · answer #6 · answered by rwhz199 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes send a txt and see what he says or even call him
2006-12-08 18:59:22 · answer #7 · answered by caramelbunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋