now me and my girlfriend really love each like hell.. before we propesed to each other we knew that we liked each other cause we could feel it... we cant stay with out each other.... but the thing is that we are just 14 years of age.... and the girls parents know it.. they say we are too young for love as we cant understand what love is... could that be true? but according us we love each other alot.. i had two other girlfriends before but now with the third one i feel different from the other two.. so i think its real love.. if anybody know the answer for sure pls tell me and dont play this is damn serious...
2006-12-08 18:48:18 · 11 answers · asked by nihal k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just wait till you feel first three grils different from the fourth one.
or Ask your parents to get you engaged so that you can live yourself
2006-12-08 18:51:10 · answer #1 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love has different meanings as defined it's a word so powerful and heart-felt. at the age of 14 you guys may be experiencing what you call maturity. and that feeling of love may just be a longing to belong to someone, to have a friend, someone pretty you can show off to others....but, to say you two are not in love i would be not telling the truth, then in the same breath, i can say that you two need to talk about feelings and a planed future, you too have a long road ahead of you and to make a better judgement, i would say that,schooling comes first and future goals next so if you two want a relationship ? why not be close friends ( a sweetheart ) like high school sweethearts and grow in life together as one. good luck
2006-12-09 03:26:28 · answer #2 · answered by thuo s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't be proposing at 14. Honestly, you have no idea what love is at 14. You haven't matured enough to realize what it is.
It's possible you feel differently with her because you guys click better, I dunno, I guess its possible that its love, but it would be more "puppy love" than anything. How long have you been dating. Whats so different about the way you feel for her then the way you felt for the other girls?
you have to really think about what I'm going to say here. You will never be with another girl for the rest of your life if you marry her. Teenagers date a lot, or at least they are supposed to, so they know what they want from relationships and what they don't want.
But honestly, if you're comming on here just to hope people are going to say yes you're in love, go for it, I don't think you'll get it. Just because of your age. Yes, it may seem like an age discrimination, but it's only because a majority of us have grown older and realized that what we felt for a significant other at 14, is completely different to what we feel for a significant other now.
If you really feel you're in love with her and she loves you back just the same, then you prove that to the world that your relationship Can and Will work.
2006-12-09 02:54:46 · answer #3 · answered by memoriesareabeach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, lets say it is the real deal.. Then you'll still be with each other when you're twenty.. And then you can get married etc, and no one can say you're too young then.
Whether it's real love or not, onlytime can tell, so just enjoy each other now, and let time tell..
For now, as well as focusing on each other, focus on school as well, so that when you're older, you two can have a great futurre together. And be able to live the American/Australian dream.
2006-12-09 02:52:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, you could be. I however would wait until you are a little older more like 18. I have known married couples that found each other at that age. It just depends really. You should not be bogged down if you love each other or not. You have plenty of time for that, believe me. You should be dating around for fun with groups and not tie yourself down. You will miss out on so much, just relax and have fun and don't worry about it know. If it works out you will find out down the road just don't rush it.
2006-12-09 02:52:35 · answer #5 · answered by Gurilie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say dont listen to those who tell you that you dont understand love........Everything understands love.....its always up to the two who are feeling this to make their decision.............and be willing to reap the rewards or suffer the conciquences........it is the full examination of the situation by humans to make and stick to a chosen path of life........by the way.....my love life during my youth was completely ruined all because I believed those exact words that the adults told me........in having total belief in the adults to know all about LIFE..what a lie.......its not that you may or may not know, to be the reason why they told you this, it's because they dont want the worry of dealing .....with the emotions you may go through....all I can say is ....... spend some years together examining every aspect of your soon to be final decision
2006-12-09 03:11:02 · answer #6 · answered by Kriss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
teens mature easily.. but the point is they still don't know much about the way of life is. i know you are experienced in relationships but the fact still remains that you are still young. Let love mature more as time passes and you'll see it is worth the time. The one thing i cant figure out is that so what if you're "really" in love with the girl.. then go love her (not physically but emotionally), there's no problem with it.
2006-12-09 02:59:45 · answer #7 · answered by AutumnMemoirs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,i think that urs is a true love becoz i too am of ur age .iam also having a boyfriend who love me like anything.our parents know everything;they too are saying the same thing.but we know eachother & ofcourse know that ours is a true love.so dont worry about others if u know that u sincerely love her.neither time nor distance can break ur love if u r an undaunting lover.
2006-12-09 04:58:28 · answer #8 · answered by nakshatra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only 14.....hota hein.
my girlfriend was 14 when i was 18. now she is my wife and i am 33... so it can work but not without storms in the form of parents n rivals who will keep eating your brain. be brave and try not to drift away from studies...very very important
2006-12-12 22:06:37 · answer #9 · answered by vasco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we can not tell you if your in love or not....its your choice you only have two choices for almost everything in like and theres a bad choice and a good choice
2006-12-09 02:51:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋