so i was talkin to my girlfriend Gina on the phone while i was chatting on the PC! so this girl called "jennifer55" was chatting with me privately! So while not thinking what i was doing i asked her out on a date and gave her my phone number!
so then i got off and talked to Gina (girlfriend) then called it a night.
next morningi get a call from Gina asking me who is Jennifer55??
I heard that my mouth dropped! so then i made up a stupid story telling her that shes just an old friend! so then shes telling me that im a lyer im not telling her the truth!
well hours later she calls back and tells me that SHE WAS JENNIFER55!!!!! she was testing me out to see if i was true in which i am but i wasent thinking at the time! Gina and i been going out for 6 months and are madly in love! now she says that i cant be trusted and wants to leave me! i forced her to think about not leaving me and promised her i would never do it again in which i wont!So what should i tell her?any tips?what do i do?
2006-12-08 18:24:00 · 7 answers · asked by Spike S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You got caught and there is no excuse for what you have done.Gina shouldn't have trapped you but she probably had her reasons.What if Gina was being asked out and giving out her phone number to guys on the net,just because you didn't know about it would that make it right?Love is a strong word and I'm not sure that you know how to give all of yourself to one person.I wish you and Gina good luck because once you lose trust it's hard to get it back.
2006-12-08 19:06:29 · answer #1 · answered by jean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh come on. She obviously didn't trust you much to begin with if she's pretending to be someone she's not. I would be pissed if my boyfriend did that, but that fact that you were talking to your gf on the phone while "jennifer" wanted to go on a date or whatever you'd figure not to ask her out while your girl was on the phone.
you have a lot of a s s kissing to do, but you should ask her why she was pretending to be someone else? Why didn't she trust you fully already?
2006-12-09 02:28:15 · answer #2 · answered by memoriesareabeach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bro, you should have never done that. You say 'you weren't thinking'. I cant judge that because only you really know. But, if you love her 'so much', can you say that you are the type of man that she deserves?
No tips here bro, just man up to it and think about her long term happiness.
2006-12-09 02:31:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confess completely, it wouldn't hurt to show her your question on Yahoo!answers either. Get her cards and presents to show her how much you love her and don't want her to leave. Try to avoid excuses other then i wasn't paying attention to that one comment. They just make you fight more.Tell her and tell her how sorry you truely are. Tell her how bad you feel, do you feel like you disgraced her?, deserted her?, then tell her.
Good Luck
2006-12-09 02:32:34 · answer #4 · answered by newsies62 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a girl is testin you like that...That means she doesnt trust you Boy!! on the other hand..YOU Messed up already..Now you have to earn that trust back...
2006-12-09 02:28:02 · answer #5 · answered by IRONMAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should dump her tomorrow.
i cannot believe that a girl test her bf like that.
it's so mean and devilish.
stay away from such a *****
2006-12-09 02:30:18 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ caramel_bonbon ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should leave her, i mean, yea u were wrong in lying but wat she did is even worse cuz it proves dat she didnt trust you from a while back if she had to test you like dat......
2006-12-09 02:27:46 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Right 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋