I NEED HELP right now PLEASE?

Question

I feel as if I am going to loose my girlfriend if I dont start to not be so uptight, I am going to ask her for some help tonight but I really do feel that because I always seem to piss her off that she might leave me, and it makes me feel so bad because if we were to split I know it would be my fault for sure, so I am looking for some ideas as to how I can become less uptight-serious all the time and how I can ask her for some help because she is really mad with me right now, in her words "student is pissed off with teacher right now"

she has said she would never leave me ever but I dont know right now.

thanks everyone this is urgent
Mitch

I just feel real bad and thats why Im asking for advice to how I can approach this

we were trying to have fun and I just asked her a serious question and she went RIGHT OFF AT ME. student and teacher is what we call eachother when we are talking adult as I am older than she is

Answer 1

She is getting a bit cranky lately
she was the same last night!
why are you uptight? are you thinking about the big move to WA?
that would cause stress for you & make you uptight.
Laura didn't say she was going to leave you did she?
that is just you thinking that isn't it
so try & not worry & try to be more happy if you can because worry will make you sick & cause you to get grey hair

Answer 2

You're trying too hard, friend, But that may be some quirk of yours, which could mean you need a good, close friend, which you can't find out here, on the net.
My advice would be to brace yourself for the worst, and just go for what "feels" right, to you.
And, as much as it is possible for you, face the fact that this relationship really is better off broken. You can't have a good life, quarreling all the time.
If you have to break it off, in order to find a better life with someone else, then start now... before something more than feelings get hurt.
All the best, friend.

Answer 3

What does she say you're being uptight about? Your general attitude and character? If that's the case, seeing as how that's just how you are, she isn't a very good girlfriend! Dump her first! She ought to accept you as you are - why did ya'll get together in the first place? You' must either be rich or hung like a horse! Either way she doesn't deserve you. She's a selfish girl and very disrespectful to you. Get rid of her quick!

I cannot believe how many of these answers are telling you to change or to kiss her ass - don't listen! Besides aren't most of the ones with that type of answer females anyway? (other than me! LOL But I AM lots older & wiser!)

I just read your additional comments - my goodness, why are you letting her handle you like that? Stop being such a cream puff - be a man! You ought to be ashamed - you're better than this aren't you? Ewwww!

Answer 4

Either you or your better half is way too much hard work.

You need to find someone or somthing that it not as taxing on your brain because if you keep going like this you are going to go insane.

If you need help from strangers on the world wide web the case is lost old man. Throw in the towel, get a fishing rod and enjoy yourself.

Life is toooooooo short!!!

Answer 5

I found out my girlfriend has a husband & my father is dying. If I wasn't a true hard ass, you may just have offended me... but you just answered my question in a condescending, yet funny enough way that it made me laugh. Thank you. Life gets better. It makes me realize that sometimes you just have to take life as it comes along. The bitter, the sweet, the random, and the laughter... life is what happens when you're making other plans man.

Answer 6

What do you mean by uptight? Do you mean you are bossy and always have to be right? Or do you mean you don't have a sense of humor?

Apologize for this recent mis-step, then kiss her a lot and talk less. Also, if you don't want her to leave you, you might consider proposing marriage. You should get some Christian counseling to get to the bottom of why you are so serious-seeming, or are afraid to be wrong or are bossy. Being the leader doesn't equate to being mean or bossy. It equates to being selfless and loving.

Answer 7

plan a date nite each week and stick to it, don't let anything get in the way. when you come home from work or school take about 30 min. and clear your mind of the days events. go in and give her a kiss ,ask her about her day. do not talk about the bad things that have happen. help her w/making dinner, take a shower or bath 2gether.
never,never go 2 bed mad. let her just talk and you listen, then when she is done answer any questions she has. dont bring home ur work ,it never works out good.

Answer 8

Just talk to her, and let her give you some rules. If she has it her way she wouldnt feel you would be serious so much, and try not to be so stressed at times, and make jokes, have fun. Life isnt good living without a good laugh. But just talk to her, and tell her what she wants of you, and how you should change. And tell her you will try whatever you can to change for her, and be with her, because you love her. Worked for me. =)

Answer 9

You will never know until you ask her, you guys need to talk if you think she is going to leave you. And you guys need to spend more time together that might help the relationship, like go shopping, the movies, or just walk around the neighborhood and just talk about the things you did.

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