this guy likes me i'm over him we never dated but we were kinda in a relationship and he says our 7 month anniversary is 2morrow. should i tell him i don't like him anymore and that we never dated on our "SO CALLED" according to him anniversary
2006-12-08 18:18:17 · 11 answers · asked by ghetto fabolous 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes you have to hurt feelings to make a point.
2006-12-08 18:21:04 · answer #1 · answered by rwhz199 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you already tried to put it to him discreetly and tactfully? Maybe over the phone you said nicely that you weren't interested in him? If not, you should (or do it in person but NOT in front of anyone else). If you have already tried it that way, and he won't take no for an answer - embarrass the sh** out of him and tell him to stop stalking you. Last resort before calling the police, get your parents involved.
2006-12-09 02:22:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol!That sounds hard, mabey you should tell him after the day of it,because he might want a last day with you!It may be painful that you said you didnt like him, but he will always remeber the time you had together!Write a note or say we need to talk and stuff got it?CLean and simple!
2006-12-09 02:21:18 · answer #3 · answered by Daniel D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be as straight forward and BLUNT as possible, you have to make sure he understands what your saying! Remember and you probably already know this, but it's not what you say that matters, its what they hear! *(please also remember that guys.... being guys... are, and always will be.... stupid!) So good luck. and if all else fails, give em' a kick in the pants! :)
2006-12-09 02:23:04 · answer #4 · answered by iknowimstupid 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's odd, why would he just assume that???
you really need to explain this to him. you've probably done this many times before if it's your "seven month", but it would help if you did it in the crowded hallway at school, yelling at him, I AM NOT GOING OUT WITH YOU! WHEN ARE YOU GOING TO UNDERSTAND THAT! I DON'T LIKE YOU! YOU GIVE ME THE CREEPS! JUST LEAVE ME ALONE!
if you ruin his reputation it should work.
2006-12-09 02:31:29 · answer #5 · answered by dcarcia@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
so.. from what i read... u meant that... u two were in " kinda in a relationship " for 7 months already?!?!
that's kinda.. wrong if u dun like him.....
anyway.. if u dun like him now... then... yeaa.. tell him... dun let things continue like that...
2006-12-09 02:27:04 · answer #6 · answered by Ching y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, otherwise you would be letting him believe something that isn't true... and perhaps leading him on.
plus, it wouldn't be fair to him-- he is wasting his time with a girl who doesn't like him anymore when he could be out meeting a girl who will appreciate & love him.
2006-12-09 02:19:39 · answer #7 · answered by christy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to him and tell him sincerely that you dont like him , tell him to date other girls and let him feel that you dont have any romantic feelings towards him
2006-12-09 02:23:42 · answer #8 · answered by tukmol1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEAH, tell it like it is! Its how you feel too ya know
2006-12-09 02:20:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
push him off on a friend
2006-12-09 02:21:33 · answer #10 · answered by your_name_here 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋