What makes a girl attractive/sexy?

Answer 1

Here is the definitive answer to what attracts anyone to anyone:

1. Beauty (skin, hair, nails, clothing, accessories)
2. Wealth (the more the better)
3. Strength/Influence
4. Intelligence
5. Detachment
6. Fame

Those are the externals.

Internals:

1. Her thoughts (she is thinking of you)
2. Her feelings (she is in love with you)
3. Her desires (she wants you)
4. Her waking moments are absorbed in you
5. Her sleep time she dreams of you
6. She considers herself yours "I am yours"
7. She considers you her's "You are mine"

Relatives:

Her name invokes images of passion.
Her personal qualities are sublime and sweet.
She performs amazing activities.
She surrounds herself with beautiful friends like her.
She has the latest and hottest props (mobile, gadget, etc)
She is from a wealthy notable family.
Has a high degree of education.

(A lot falls under qualities, but no time to enumerate)

Within this general range of qualifications there will be various types of feelings, and then there are also different types of men. Some prefer one over the other. So there is no specific thing you can say generally aside from the above.

Yet, some men will be attracted to poor girls and not rich. Some ignorant girls and not learned. There is no absolute. But these are the basics.

The final answer is that all girls are potentially sexy, it just takes the right guy to come along and notice and appreciate her.

There is a guy that is going to appreciate you the way you are, but will you similarly appreciate him? Sometimes, not always.

Focus on being chaste and faithful to your husband because that is one vitue that never wears out with time like most of these others and it is generally the most valued by men and women alike.

Answer 2

I don't know why women think it's just personality that makes a women sexy, I'll give you two categories personality: -confidence, like not acting like a wall flower all the time -positive and optomistic (not a negative complainer) -someone who is capable and competent (not needy and can't accomplish anything without the man) -independent - can find a job and pay her own bills if need be -smiles a lot -likes to be adventurous -enjoys sex and knows what to do in bed -is affectionate and isn't afraid to show it in public - eye contact - look into the eyes, a little devilish look is good physical: -wears fitted (not skin tight) fashionable clothing -has nice long hair - hair that has a hairstyle, not just limp flat long hair that sticks to the head, something with some body, layers, something wild looking almost. -smells good - a nice body spray all over drives guys crazy -wears little but not too much make up, but enough to cover up the dark circles or give a little rosy glow in the cheeks and lip gloss (men love shiney lips) -has nicely manicured nails and toe nails -wears sexy shoes - heels are always a turn on. -sexy lingerie - not granny panties that you buy from a package from Wal-mart. -a tight body - if you do not have this naturally then it's time to hit the gym which btw is a turn on itself. sexy? cute? if someone is just not quite hot or sexy they are cute. It's the level right before sexy.

Answer 3

Personality is a major factor, for me. Looks are an added bonus. Mostly, for me at least, personality and the way you carry yourself has a lot to do with what makes you attractive. Also, intelligence is a pretty key factor. Sometimes, also, the ability to cook works. It really all depends on who the guy is. They say "beauty is in the eye of the beholder", and it's pretty true. What's sexy to one guy may be a turn off to another.

Answer 4

Interesting question - for me, in short form, I like curvy girls. That about sums it up... once they've caught my eye I check butt, then breasts, then eyes. Then personality - if the personality (how she acts towards me, towards others) sucks then its pretty much game over for a long term relationship. Flirtatious, cute, funny and witty attract my attention for a potential long term dating or more kind of thing.

Ideally I suppose I go for
brunette, love brunettes, with medium to long (not TO long hair) say shoulder length. Also like unusual colors or mixes, blue, pink etc - best I've seen in that category was black running down to a lightish blue...
short, under 5' 6" - although my two longest relationships were with 5' 7" and 5' 8" women
eyes widely spaced, color isn't that important, but I like hazel, grey, green and blue to some extent - most of my companions have had brown or hazel eyes.
an oval to round face,
somewhat narrow shoulders (compared to hips),
breast size not a big thing - depends on my mood,
prefer smaller nipples and areola - and not saggy breasts... narrow waist (narrower than shoulders and hips) - I do like the girl tummy bulge, sometimes prefer the toned version.
Inny belly button,
Hips wider than waist
Round inverted heart shape bottom - not huge, not flat,
Hairless or well shaved pubic region, sparse or peach fuzzy is ok - don't like getting hair in my throat, and looks sexier, not into using a machete to hack through the forest to eat, you know?
Labia and mons I've never really thought about - I think smell is more important so please bathe properly
Clitoris size doesn't matter unless its like penis sized or something - not sure how I would react to that.
Long shapely legs are nice - but legs longer than torso length are pretty much just peachy by me.
Oh and legs should be shaved.
Small to medium sized feet - not sure how I would react to like basketball player sized feet - and I like toes, they're cute, but not into hairy toes... (I mean like hobbit hairy, not peach fuzz hairy).

Flexible is also a bonus but not necessary.

Two notes - their are two basic body types used in some science studies regarding women - women come in two shapes, pear and apple. I'm a pear man.

And:

As an historical note - the beauty ideal for women has a mathematical formula. In a study of 'erotic' art - scientists found that regardless of whether the standard of prefers voluptuous, fat, skinny, whatever - the ratio of upper body, waist and hips was invariably the same - 3 to 2 to 3. This, ironically, matches the supposed 'perfect woman' from some decades ago - 36 bust, 24 waist, 36 hips.

For me - a little less on top is fine but other wise that curvy ratio is my thing...

Just my .01

-dh

Answer 5

To me, if a girl thinks she is sexy, it will show.

A sexy girl is confident, likes her body, and is okay with casual contact. A touch of the hand, a hand on the shoulder, a little squeeze of the bicep, or a compliment- "I'm really impressed with...." or I like the way you....."

Answer 6

Most of all, Persinality... But she must not be ugly for persinality only litteraly blinds you.
Next Biggest contributer is how she carries herself...
ex. she can be shy yet sexy or very outgoing and yet get guys attension. It all depends on what the each guys likes.
Dress good but not reveal to much for hoes are not attractive...

Answer 7

Honest, Humorous, Caring.

Answer 8

Personally, if we like eachother the "SAME" way, that always helps! but i would say number one is if you like to take care of yourself! in every sense of the phrase... ex: Makeup, exersize, clothing, etc. etc. etc. and not necessarly the best, and most up to date, like fashion wise, just someone who likes to look good, and have the confidence that they do.... well, at least to themselvs! In this world no one else's opinion really matters, it's how you feel about you!

Answer 9

the thing that makes a girl attractive is not by how they look, but by how they act (there personality)

Answer 10

I disagree watever makes a girl sexy or attractive, u dont have it...sorry.