Over the past few months, Ive had several dreams of her cheating on me. In each dream, she does it right infront of me and acts like everything is ok while Im falling apart. Im wanting to ask her to marry me, but these dreams are freaking me out... What do they mean? Is it just some deep inner fear, or could something really be going on?
2006-12-08 18:12:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay, i dont know if this will help any, but i have had dreams of my fiance cheating on me too, just like you describe. i think it is a natural thing to worry about those things. when you are in a relationship you dont want to lose that person, especially when it is that deep of one. try talking to her about it. thats what i did with my fiance. more than likely she will assure you it is okay, and perhaps tell you shes experienced the same thing a couple times. honesty is ALWAYS the most important thing in a relationship. you should be able to share everything. hope this helps.
2006-12-08 18:16:13 · answer #1 · answered by caseyrae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you're going through, I've had the same problem with my boyfriend. Well I guess not exactly WITH him as It was just dreams of him cheating on me.
Have you been cheated on before in previous relationships? It seems to me that you have an insecurity of becomming so attached to her because you're afraid she'll cheat on you.
Has she ever given you any reason to believe this? If she has, then it doesn't seem like a good idea to ask her to marry you. If she has never given you reason to believe she would cheat on you, then I wouldn't worry about it too much. Your insecurities are just comming out in your dreams. Maybe just sit her down and talk with her. Sometimes having your loved one laugh it off and tell you they would never think of EVER doing something like that to you, can get rid of your fears of being cheated on. Hope this helps some.
2006-12-08 18:22:16 · answer #2 · answered by memoriesareabeach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi you are quite lucky you meet me, I am a Chinese and know some traditional thoeries of explaning dreams, which is developed thousands of years ago.
What you described is NOT your inner fear, it also doesn't mean sth is going on behind you, and it has nothing to do with you girlfriend AT ALL! The dream you made means two things:
One, if you dreamed your gf had sex with sb else, it means you are very dissatisfied with your actual life.
Two, if your dream didn't involve in any sex, just rommance of your gf and sb else, it means you will perhaps be promoted, you will be more respected or it's a very good sign for your family.
Thanks.
2006-12-08 18:25:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same thing and my girlfriend WAS cheating on me I later found out. It's probably just inner fear but there's probably something provoking the inner fear.
2006-12-08 18:17:33 · answer #4 · answered by PS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all dreams are what they are, it may not be her cheating but your thinking it constantly are making you dream this. If you love her and she treats you good and makes you happy, dont hesitate on asking her to marry you. Dont let these dreams make you have second thoughts. When my mind is constantly thinking something all day i dream about them, i question my dreams the next day when i awake. But i realize its just a dream and that i went to bed with it on my mind. Dont worry yourself over this. GOod luck sweetie!!!
2006-12-08 18:15:17 · answer #5 · answered by munchkin0430 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
targets are frequently in accordance to what became on your thoughts once you went to sleep... i imagine. I had dream some nights in the past really that i became dishonest on my boyfriend!! Its no longer some thing i'd EVER do, yet I dreamed about it besides. nicely... the human mind works in unusual and mysterious thoughts... lol i'd say you dont have some thing to rigidity about. in case you wanna search for suggestion from from her about it, you may. yet i doubt that shes quite dishonest on you.
2016-11-25 00:29:54 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Must be paranoid about her possibly cheating. Something maybe trying to tell you something.
2006-12-08 18:14:51 · answer #7 · answered by rwhz199 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
deep inner fear...but u may be prophesizing something also
2006-12-08 18:13:58 · answer #8 · answered by JO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be a representation of your fears.
i would talk to her about it if it's worrying you about it that badly.
2006-12-08 18:17:49 · answer #9 · answered by dcarcia@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read this and laughed my *** off..... omg this is hilarious.
2006-12-08 18:15:22 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Untouchable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋