ok, this guy is always paying such attention to me and he knows I like him. I am pretty sure he is just as obsessed with me. he is always talking about me with his friends and is always staring at me. He talks to these other girls who aren't that attractive in front of me purposely and they know I like him. Why do they try to irritate me by doing this? Whenever he isn't around these nasty bitches, he is totally infatuated with me! Whenever there is a time in the day where he doesn't see me, he gets all happy when he does and he'll try to find me! on days when i am not in school, he notices and pays even MORE attention to me. but what i don't get is he is able to talk with these ugly girls and he acts like he likes them right in front of me. I catch him staring at me all the time- sometimes he'll look away sometimes he won't. He will smile at me or say hi but he can never strike up a conversation. Could someone please help me figure him out?!
2006-12-08 17:59:19 · 17 answers · asked by BeachBabe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have talked to him before and he liked it! ...sorry i guess i should have said that
2006-12-08 18:05:48 · update #1
He's just not that into you.
2006-12-08 18:01:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you have been with him for a while and cannot figure him out means you do not know what his intention is, and some ugly, thats your impression of other girls chatting with him does not mean they are not interesting and fun loving girls, beauty comes from within as well , its evident he enjoys those girls company, you are young and should mix around with others and may be he will notice that you are and he might on his own relaize that two can play the same game, best of luck
2006-12-09 02:10:28 · answer #2 · answered by cluelesskat maria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say he's a smart man. By acting the way he does w/ these other girls...it's driving you crazy! He does it, I think, as a test to see if you really like him. If you didn't, you wouldn't care. BUT because you DO like him, you DO care, and you DO get jealous. I do that sometimes as a test...next time, walk up to the bitches and tell them off. It shows that your not afraid to fight for what you want, and to men(at least me)...it's one hell of a turn on.
2006-12-09 02:02:45 · answer #3 · answered by Stewie Loves You 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a little player...I bet he gives the same impression on a lot of girls...I mean if he's talking to all these other girls with pure confidence & while he is he's looking straight at you then obviously he's into you & a lot of other girls...He's a typical playa that you shouldn't even waist your time with. Move along to the next one girl =]
2006-12-09 02:07:26 · answer #4 · answered by Savanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you. When a guy is obsessed with a girl they really like they fail to act because they are intimidated by the prospect of screwing up and chasing you away. He is going over the different scenarios in his head and over thinking the whole damn thing. Just ask him out and be done with it.
2006-12-09 02:03:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it that you want from all this attention?
If you are having this hard of a time figuring him out. It is just going to get a little bit more complicated or "interesting"
Is he worth the fuss? Must be a doll if he is!!
2006-12-09 02:02:44 · answer #6 · answered by Bobyns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants you to notice him and that he is cool 'cause he can talk to these girls...no worries. He definately likes you.
As for the talking...why don't YOU strike up a conversation? There must be SOMETHING you could talk about. Just start, and if the chemistry is right, things will just start flowin'! Luck
2006-12-09 02:02:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is shy but trying to get your attention and seeing if you care by pretending to popular with the other girls.
2006-12-09 02:09:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should do him a favor and leave him alone. If this paragraph is any indication of what you are like, you are the ugly one on the inside. Who cares who he is talking to? Are you really this selfish? Please feel free to e-mail me and read me the riot act or straighten out my impression.
2006-12-09 02:04:11 · answer #9 · answered by m-t-nest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The other girls might just be his friends. Why don't you start up a conversation with him there's nothing wrong with it.
2006-12-09 02:05:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is trying to let you know that he do cut for you
and he is trying to tell or show that he is not a bad catch girls do want to hook up with him
so if you want him talk to him and nip all taht nonsense in the bud
2006-12-09 02:03:58 · answer #11 · answered by slpry L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋