Ok I have a friend who is very immature and acts like a child we are 16. Anyways he is in love with my other friend she is our age too. So he likes to touch her hand or arm a lot and play with her hair but she gets weirded out by it and I don't think likes it. She has me tell him to stop and has me sit next to her so he can't sit next there.
But anyways his last love failed misserably because he was litterally obsessed with her, he wrote her a love letter the first day they met and kept calling her annoyingly. So her and her friends just dropped all forms of contact with him.
Im afraid that this may happen with the new girl and everyone else will not want him around anymore. The girl doesn't like him but she doesn't want to hurt his feelings nor do I, but we need to tell him to stop comming on to strong because the my female friend is getting afraid.
So what should I do to make him listen? We have told him before but he doesn't stop. Sorry for the long post.
2006-12-08 17:47:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah pretty much he stalked the other girl.
2006-12-08 17:52:04 · update #1
I really dont know what I would do, but try and find someone else who would like this guy, and maybe your girl--friend-- could tell him that she likes some other person. Try and tell him again that she isnt interested, and she has this other guy who she MIGHT like, or something. Tell him you dont want to see him get hurt, and find someone else. =)
2006-12-08 18:01:38 · answer #1 · answered by ThexSilentxOnex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do need to sit down and have a serious talk with him. Don't be worried about hurting his feelings, but he is starting to scare your friend. He sounds like he might have a very controlling nature to him. This is not good. If all else fails, break ties from him. Explain to him that girls are not going to want to be around him because he is frightening them. Best of Luck.
2006-12-09 01:54:33 · answer #2 · answered by calla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have said that you do tell him to stop it and he does not ,so i guess he wants his own way, and does not take no for an answer, which is really not good cause if he decides to have sex, he may not take no for an answer too, so be firm and give him an ultimatium and tell him what he is doing is really bothering your friend and he does not stop you are both going to stop your friendship, either he stops or just give up his friendship, he is unconsiderate and does not know where to draw the line. and from what i gather he is only bothered about his own feelings.
2006-12-09 01:57:39 · answer #3 · answered by cluelesskat maria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for the blunt answer: 'dude, if you keep doing that, you'll never get a date to our senior prom.' (or just leave it at 'date') and be totally serious about it. unfortunately, if he doesn't listen to you (time and time again), it may just be one of those things he has to learn on his own.
2006-12-09 01:52:26 · answer #4 · answered by Vae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a potential stalker to me...
2006-12-09 01:51:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋