Ok. I just asked a question about women seeming unapproachable; I got a series of answers from " we're playing hard to get" to " uh..did you ever think maybe we wanna be alone?"
to "we're just shy" to " we're tired". So now I say this. Since you females have all the answers--- give us a rundown of what your plan is exactly. - as far as meeting guys that you may be interested in.
Men approach women they see. Men may ask a friend of the woman about her relationship status. Men may start a conversation with small talk .
Women... what exactly is your method? What are you trying to accomplish if anything? How do you do it then? Since it obviously isnt accomodating men who may be interested enough to talk to you by at least making yourselves seem available. Tell us how you women go about it.
2006-12-08 17:34:54 · 8 answers · asked by Airtight 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You hear women talking about " just go try!" "go after what you want". "cant win unless you try!!" Ok.. why dont you take your own advice then?
Is the oness and responsibility of one's happiness through the opposite sex only on a man? Do you as a women feel no responsibility at all in finding a partner ?
2006-12-08 17:35:50 · update #1
I would make sure he looked interested in me too, I wouldn't want to look like an a*ss. If he looked interested, then I would smile a lot and make eye contact. Then hopefully he would come talk to me (just because I'm shy), but if he didn't then I would find some lame excuse to talk to him, like "so... the weather is crazy right now, huh"... and hope that it goes further than just talking about snow.
2006-12-08 17:39:40 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just like you guys hate rejection so do we. As for me, I flirt with the guy more than with his friends if I have interest in him. I mean how else would you know I'm interested in you if I don't treat you different from your friends. I'll pay more attention to you and even try to make more conversation with you. But if you are shy, I'll back off because just like you, I don't want to push myself on you to find out you weren't into me like that. I mean women are unique in a way we are evil creatures aren't we?! I've walked by a hot guy and I'll actually look at him straight in the eyes as I go by and see if he looks my way. And when I see him check me out, I'll keep on glancing. I hope that helps you. We are only human. We want y'all to have confidence because you're our men and our "protectors" and if you don't have it then whats the point. No woman wants a weak guy who can't stand up for himself meaning he wont stand up for us. Women have a confidence too and they'll stand up for their man even when he is no good!!!
2006-12-08 18:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by africangirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way back, before I got married, I would try to get a man's interest and then try to find out all about him to get to know him and if we had things in common, we would hit it off and go from there or lose interest and go our separate ways.
2006-12-08 17:39:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im Watching this as well, ive been asking this as well.
And as usual the hypocrits wont give a real answer.
I have yet to see this "confidence" they so crave in a man, in themsleves.
edit - your q should be, "what method do women society considers attractive....etc"
2006-12-08 17:52:40 · answer #4 · answered by Its me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was interested in a guy ide start a conversation with him if he was interested hede talk to me again if not than owell hes not the only guy in the world
2006-12-08 17:51:12 · answer #5 · answered by mell14716 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretty typical answers so far. I am watching your question because it is interesting.
2006-12-08 17:37:48 · answer #6 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like any of us women would tell you.!
2006-12-08 17:36:11 · answer #7 · answered by a no no mouse 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO!
2006-12-08 17:36:36 · answer #8 · answered by Alysha W 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋