i had a very close friend who suddenly....?

Question

I have this close friend of mine who's a girl. We knew each other for about 15yrs since secondary school. We often went out but to both of us, we nvr had feeling for each other b4. we shared everything like thoughts, shopping etc etc. Last two days, we were passing by this hotel n she asked me if I want to go in together. She had a bf n I do have a gf which both of us knew too. Anyway, I asked her go in for what, and she told me to 'do' of coz. I was shocked n rejected her. She was angry and walk off. Since then, I called her n she nvr pick up. I msg her she nvr reply. Was she angry? But it was wrong to do it right?

Answer 1

i think you were right to say no, since you guys are both taken by others, you guys really shouldn't be doing anything with each other. and what she did was wrong, she shouldn't have asked to go in a hotel with her in the first place just to "do it" and if she really liked you then she would break up with her boyfriend and if you liked her then you would've broken up with your girlfriend. so the both of you don't have feelings for each other. she just wanted to do it with you cause she thought you would've said yes. try talking to her and letting her know what's going on and that you don't like her like that and that you both have someone else which makes it wrong if you guys do go in that hotel. good luck! =D

Answer 2

well yeah it wouldn't be appropriate if u've done it with her since u both have ur own serious partners,also u would have lost the respect you once had for her or probably see her in a different way....unless u guys are cool of being friends with benefits?well u have to ask urself what is she to u and where r u headed?

Answer 3

I think you did the right thing. Freindship is more improtant than sex. let her cool of and explain why you rejected the idea.

Answer 4

not me.