were do i need 2 go or do 2 meet my soulmate...............I'm tired of dateing............
2006-12-08 17:21:13 · 18 answers · asked by QUEEN G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take time to evaluate yourself. Ask yourself questions like:
1) What kind of ways do I try to meet men?
2) What type of man do I usually fall for?
3) What kind of first impression or vibe do I give off when I first meet someone, how do I act?
4) What do I really want out of a relationship?
5) What type of qualities am I really looking for in a partner?
What you've been doing hasn't been working up until now, so it's time to start trying something different! It's always good to get to know yourself and what you want before getting into a serious relationship. And remember, you are still young! If it hasn't happened yet, then there's a reason for it! Stop trying so hard, pull back, get to know yourself better and everything will fall into place from there. I am in my late twenties and I haven't had a serious committed relationship in quite a few years. I just keep reminding myself that there is someone out there for me and that I would rather be single with my options open than tied down with someone I'm not compatible with just for the sake of not being alone. You WILL find him, hang in there!!!
2006-12-08 17:33:06 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not that there's anything wrong with you wanting to find a soul mate, but what would make someone want to find you? When I find my girl she'll probably be doing or be involved in some of the things that are important to me too.
So if you've got interests close to your heart, then participate in the activities related to them. You'll find that there are others that share some of your same mindsets and that could lead to much deeper feelings when you do get involved. The other upside would be that you'd be fulfilling another part of your life at the same time by making a difference in something or cause that really matters to you.
2006-12-09 01:41:12 · answer #2 · answered by warp6point6 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop dating. Dating starts with a physical attraction and thus is based on very little. Courting is the old fashioned way of "dating" where nothing happened physically, everything was talk. Women tend to attract men who will treat them the way that their father did. Repair the relationship with your father, in your own mind, and you will attract people who treat you better. You can also tell how a man will treat other women by the way he treats his mother (or talks about her). Stay away from any guy who talks about his ex in a negative way.
2006-12-09 01:29:25 · answer #3 · answered by sandcatsle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey kiddo i am 37 and never dated a good woman in my life. i know they r out there. i can't find one that can spell loyalty let alone be loyal. or they r mean, or cold, or selfish, or they want to fight.
what happened to love, romance, honesty, and loyalty. its hard for 2 good people to find each other anymore.
i don't know honey i am beginning to think that it just wasn't ment to be. the worse thing is the older i get, i am more set in my ways. i never got it i am not high maintenance, i am very easy to please.
drop me a line when u figure it out.
2006-12-09 01:50:03 · answer #4 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there NOT all married. But when you find him you will know.I know it sounds too easy. But just go about your life, and that man will find you. He is out there, you will just have to advertise yourself, and you are doing a good job right now....heading in the right direction..
2006-12-09 01:25:38 · answer #5 · answered by Boats 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have never had a good man in your life, what have you been wasting your time on, I think you need to look at your expectations more that the men in your life
2006-12-09 01:24:57 · answer #6 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this situation's reason is your sensitivity.As I get it you couldn't find the male who decent for you.There is no wrong in your situation.Don't hurry up,finally you'll able to find the male who decent for you.
Plausibly these males couldn't to address you in order to aquire your trust.
Don't torture yourself,find something to pomper yourself in order to throw away these kind of things.
You don't have to ponder about this kind of situation.
I hope you'll able to find the male who can to address you decently as soon as possible.
2006-12-09 01:37:23 · answer #7 · answered by controlsilent 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are no perfect guys out there, that's the reason why females were created.. to fill those blanks to make us whole.. and vice-versa. i know you dont want to waste time but time is not the issue here it is patience. just keep looking and youll find one soon.
2006-12-09 01:35:20 · answer #8 · answered by AutumnMemoirs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck - send me an email - I'm 39... just click on the link here or my account..
You can find me on Yahoo Personals as well.
-dh
2006-12-09 01:23:57 · answer #9 · answered by delicateharmony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, look for guys who seem like they would be good fathers- not flashy guys in a club.
2006-12-09 01:23:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋