hes only 12 and he says thts hes gay. we live in an area thts okay with homos but in our family its not ok.he plans on telling our parents hes gay on new years day. but im afraid tht they will kick him out he tells. i love him and i want him to b strait for his own good. how do i make him strait?
2006-12-08 17:06:55 · 16 answers · asked by sammy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
he is gay for life sister deal with it.
2006-12-08 17:08:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's still 12 years old and he says that he is gay. At that age, maybe that he's still confuse about his sexual orientation. Sit down with him and talk. Ask how he feels toward man and woman. He might interpret the wrong term about homosexuality. I would think differently from the others. Maybe it would be a good idea to tell your parents. They could think of a solution soo looking for a solution with your parents is better than doing this alone. but you know your parents more than me, so it's for you to decide. They could be pissed off but I am sure that they would try to change him first. If he is truly gay, that will be hard...otherwise...put him on an island full of girls lol goodluck
2006-12-09 01:20:15 · answer #2 · answered by LadyXSakura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being gay isn't a choice. It's like being born black or white,male or female, blond or a red head. You just "Are". At the age of 12 that's a pretty bold move. Just try to be as supportive as you can. Tell him to be sure this is what he wants to do because there is no putting this back in the box once it's out there. Just be his brother and let him simply be who he is...your brother.
2006-12-09 01:12:00 · answer #3 · answered by Smoochie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you cannot make people think what they dont want to. But there are some advice i can give you.
Take him to a very hott girls house. But make sure that girl loves to kiss!!
Make her kiss him and make him realize kissing a girl is way better!! See if he backs away. If he does he really is gay. but if he doesnt he still wants it!!
Well ask him to think about it more because hes only at the age of 10!! He might not know what hes thinking. Hes still little.
But its not too late to help so try the advice i gave you at top ^^^
I HOPE IT ALL WORKS OUTâ¥
2006-12-09 01:11:01 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ angel ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's best that you let him tell your parents, he may be too young to come out but than again , if he's sure about it, there's not much you can do. You could just love and support him, he will need that, and stand by him as far as his decision, it's only a sexual preference, he will still be the brother you love.That will not change. Good Luck and God Bless you and your brother.
2006-12-09 01:50:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, you can't make a person gay or straight. That is something that they have to deal with. However, you can help the process by remaining strong and reminding your parents and your brother that no matter what you will always love all of them.
2006-12-09 01:09:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry but i dont think there is a way to make him striaght. You can tell him the consequences of what will happen if he does tell him and tell him that you love him too much to lose him. although you may not be proud of him being gay, tell him you will support him and maybe he will listen to you and not tell your parents for the time being.
2006-12-09 01:10:24 · answer #7 · answered by CiNdiEe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no way to make someone strait. it is not a choice. u are born with it. your parents are just going to have to deal with it. being gay isn't a bad thing it is just different than what we are used to. If your brother says he is gay than I would support him as much as u can.
2006-12-09 01:10:07 · answer #8 · answered by delzzers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might not even b sure he's gay... it takes some time to figure out, but if he seriously thinks he is gay then u can't change it, but u could tell him that u feel that way and try to understand that telling ur parents could wait until he's older and ur parents might understand more then.....
hope this helps, and that it all works out...
happy holidays
2006-12-09 01:11:45 · answer #9 · answered by Breanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not possible to change someone's sexual orientation. One is born as such. I doubt that your parents will kick him out at the age of 12.
2006-12-09 01:27:41 · answer #10 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all his only 12 your parents can't kick him out second of all you say you love your brother but your trying to change him third of all when he goes to tell your guys parents maybe have his back.
i'm always there for my family and i would never change none of my family no matter what they do.
2006-12-09 01:12:07 · answer #11 · answered by Ms. Rockstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋