How can i convice my dad that it's okay for me to have a boyfriend? You see ive benn gioing out wit this guy for a month now and well my mom knows and she's not okay wit it so how can i convince them that im mature enough? and how can i do that without getting in a aurgument?
2006-12-08 17:03:44 · 14 answers · asked by Clumsi_Muneca 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
if ur dad owns any guns.. then till ur 90 then it prolly wont be okay with him.. he sounds over protective and to get over that your going to have to spend a lot of time with your dad to prove in different situation that you have matured if u really did.. if not its more sneaking out then gettin caught then gettin pregnt.. u really need to do this right if u want your father to approve of any dating..
2006-12-08 17:13:40 · answer #1 · answered by burnin_inphx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust has to be earned. If you have shown in the past that you cannot be trusted, it will be even harder to convince them to trust that you are mature enough.
Also, I guess that it depends on how old you are. Your parents might have a reason for not liking that you have a boyfriend. You could talk to them. Parents like it when their kids talk to them openly, honestly and maturely.
2006-12-08 17:07:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one way.. Somehow you have to invite your friend over to your house, and do something to show your parents that he's nice and hopefully to get your parents to like him..
If your dad likes anything at all, bowling, golf, sports, tell your boyfriend to talk to your dad about those things.. and encourage them become friends, in a small way.. Otherwise, they are pretty much in control.. so he has to show them that he is a good guy. Isn't that what you'd want for your daughter? Think about it.
2006-12-08 17:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by Golfcarmel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to do, i dont know hwo old you are, but if you think you're mature enough and like the guy that much to go thru w/ it.. sit your parents down and have a mature talk about it with NO yelling and try to prove that your old enogh and that they need to trust you. if you act mature and show that you really care, they will too.
2006-12-08 17:05:51 · answer #4 · answered by tortl :) 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends...if you are old enough to know the meaning of love, if you are already done in school..or college..if you live on your own and support yourself...or if you are a responsible, smart, mature, person..then, he might consider.
2006-12-08 17:06:51 · answer #5 · answered by FlyingHi007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, you can have bf even if you are not in the right age, The thing is study hard! They don't want you to have a bf coz they thought having a bf is distracting you to study, Prove them that it will never gonna happen.
2006-12-08 17:39:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very simple have your dad come with you on your dates assuming you date and not hang out.Sure it's old fashion but if he doesn't observe the behavior of your boyfriend for himself you'll never convince him.:-)
2006-12-08 17:18:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at first ur boyfriend has no fee of ur existence so we could kick him out of the question/answer. your father in all likelihood knows that myspace is risky and that there are a number of intercourse offenders on there and that there are those that understand the thank you to discover u on your laptop (thats called unblocking ur firewall). so possibly he purely needs u to be risk-free besides myspace is kinda boring, facebook is slightly safer buht its nonetheless very almost the same purely pay attention to ur father
2016-10-18 00:27:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should present yourself in a very mature way, so no yelling or screaming, tell them why you should be able to have one and show how responsible you can be so they can trust you! good luck
2006-12-08 17:05:07 · answer #9 · answered by laurennn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them ur boyfriend is a mature guy and is very nice to u. tell them u can learn on your own mistakes.
2006-12-08 17:07:44 · answer #10 · answered by kristintek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋