i'm going out with this guy and i love him, but i love my ex bf a little more. me and my ex went out for a year and a half.......me and this guy went out for 2 months.......my ex says that if i break up with my bf.. he will try to break up with his gf .......and get back together with me......what should i do?????
2006-12-08 17:03:11 · 11 answers · asked by chica_chica_15 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you feel like you still love your xbf more than your present bf..then you should breakup with ur present..thats unfair for him to continue the relationship when you know on ur part you still love ur xbf..but dont expect that your xbf will break up with his present gf..because you broke up with ur bf,but if he did break up with his gf..congratulations..hope this time things would really work out for the two of you : )
2006-12-08 17:15:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so, but then it depends on how you feel about your ex? Why are you not together anymore? Do you think it will work out the second time? Hmmm how do you feel about your current bf? Maybe the first bf was not to be and I just don't believe he would leave his gf because he wants you only if you break up with your current bf. That's BS. If the current bf makes you feel happy..stay with him, if not ...find someone who does and not the EX!
2006-12-08 17:12:17 · answer #2 · answered by Just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth would you want to get back with someone you already didn't work out with, sounds like a lot of craziness to me, you love him but you love your ex a little more, how are you still talking to the ex and plotting to break up with the current if you love your current guy.....Women just blow me away sometimes........Wow
2006-12-08 17:11:53 · answer #3 · answered by stayn_blazd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a good thing that you know who you love more. Must you consider that you and your ex broke up for a reason so would it be a good thing to go back to that path so the same thing might happen agian? If you do consider breaking up with your current boyfriend, make sure your ex boyfriend breaks up with his girlfriend so that you dont end up boyfriendless if he decides not to break up with her. You really shouldnt take advice, you should listen to your heart. god that sounds corny, because like me, i've taken advice from so many different people and thats what they want,not what i want. so think hard!
2006-12-08 17:07:56 · answer #4 · answered by CiNdiEe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you should stop letting your ex mess with your head. Why is he your ex anyway (I'm sure there's a reason)? He will TRY to break up with his girlfriend after you DO break up with your boyfriend.... The playa has you on the hook - run - fast.
2006-12-08 17:23:34 · answer #5 · answered by Jewelhunter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that you may need to mature more by being on your own for awhile. And do not go back with the first boyfriend as he does not seem to be very mature either. If he can drop someone for you just like that then he will do the same with you and vice versa.
2006-12-08 17:07:46 · answer #6 · answered by Missy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooh, this is risky. you should make sure it's what you want. cause the two monther wont ever trust you again. Plus we dont know why you broke up with youre ex. So give us the dirt!
2006-12-08 17:05:36 · answer #7 · answered by fuck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it matters why you broke up with ex in the first place and
what attracted you to your existing boyfriend.
His going to TRY to break up with his girl friend.. screw him
2006-12-08 17:23:43 · answer #8 · answered by Hephaestus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i don't think you should have taken it that far and agreed on that with your EX. think about why he's your X and if it would really work again. maybe you just have more to learn about your new man.
how scandalous are you? like Soap Operas?
2006-12-08 17:07:15 · answer #9 · answered by B.B Top 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him then if he still dont u just say ta him look wen it all back fire`s dont complain coz u were told
2006-12-08 17:09:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋