Why do females make themselves so unapproachable?

Question

One of many examples would be: your at the gym, you see a bangin azz girl hot body and everything. Maybe a girl you've seen in here before a few times and have already repeated this situation i'm going to describe.

You walk by or something without saying anything yet cause she's messin with her i-pod. She gets settled in and you see she's over there looking like she's concentrating like a monk-- dont see anything but the wall straight ahead and her i-pod screen. So you say ok whatever, *** it.

Then you get done with your workout and you catch her over here eyeing you down after all that 'dont talk to me vibe' she was giving. So of course I just leave and you see her looking all insecure/sad that nobody's talking to her. But what was the purpose of that?

There are many other situations like this I'm sure guys everywhere experience them all day long. Why??

and dont say " maybe you just thought that". Every guy in there thought the same thing. I've never seen her approached by a guy. We wanna do our part, but ladies we also need you to do your part.


Its crazy how these females come on here talking about " no we dont. no we're not". I just told you you do! Walking around with an I-pod and texting on your phone the whole time says "UNAPROACHABLE".


But hey, i'm not oblivious-- I know every girl out there likes di.ck, and I know every girl wants someone to pay attention and talk to them. I'm just irritated at your methods because you make no sense at all

Answer 1

She is not interested in you.

Answer 2

Even with all of the answers, I don't think anyone has hit it yet.

Women are unapproachable because of fear - sometimes justified fear. Women could just as easily be smiley and happy and nod at all the attractive men they would like to get involved with, but this creates a problem. The problem is that each and every one of those men will think it is a "done deal." Married men, engaged men, convicted felons, and any other desirable or undesirable class of men will go after her at this invitation, and put on all the charms because they know she is already open to it. They will go to more effort to get her in bed because they don't think it will take as long. They are also more likely to lie if they are in a committed relationship.

The fact is, women who are unapproachable still get approached. They are more likely to be approached by single men because married men don't want to go to the trouble when they already have one in the bag. They are also more likely to be approached by more confident men, which is what we all want. Unapproachability is just a weeding-out tool.

I met my man at a fast food restaurant. He chased me into the restaurant from the parking lot, and I can tell you that I was a little on guard and barely nodding to his questions and small talk. He was dressed a little pimped out with his hip-hop logos, and was visibly drooling while looking at my T&A. I didn't know him from a drug dealer on his way back to Compton. He sat down next to me while we waited for our takeout, and he really persisted and continued to try to converse, but I was little more than polite. I cooly agreed to save his phone number in my phone. I gave it a chance, and it turns out he is a really great guy and to boot - a movie producer with friends here in LA who include some of the biggest names in hip-hop, TV, and film.

The mesage to the men: keep persisting, even if she doesn't seem receptive initially. The message to the women: through that pissed-off look, make sure you see the potential in the men around you, and take a chance once in a while.

Answer 3

Females do act like that.... I didn't even think about it until you asked this question, but I don't make eye contact when there are a group of guys around, I just walk staright ahead without glancing at them, even though I know they are eyeing me.... I think it's just the thrill of being desired, but being unattainable at the same time. However, I totally expect a guy to approach me either way, because that shows confidence, which is hot!

Answer 4

Maybe they dont want to look desperate or maybe they think is he worth the effort by the possible vibes you give off. Quit the questioning and just go find out. Go after what you want..cant win unless you try.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

la-la: why us gurls r like that is one we r freaked about guys and the guys have to be comfortable then the gurl will be to dont get nervous or we are scared, lastely we might be on our period! gosh not like u would understand!!!!$$$

Nic: We are unaproachable because we like to hang with our gurls. Guys sometimes get uncomfortable when gurls are with their friends. Or do we scare u a bit. It's OK. Guys scare me 2 when I try 2 give them notes and they r with their friends. Choose a good gurl.

lala: o yeah and gurls dont like the guys who check gurls out they have only seen once or twice! unless they are sluts and the guy would be a player

hopefully that helps

Answer 7

If you never plan on actually talking to them, a hot girl will always play hard-to-get, because if you want things easy your women going to be 150 pounds fatter than the girl you day dreamed about

Answer 8

Maybe we just don't want to talk to you. Ever thought of that? Maybe we don't want you to approach us. We have better ways to spend our time than talking to guys who only notice us for our "bangin azz hot bodies."

Answer 9

♥Well gosh.
You should actually go up to say hey or something.
Maybe the girl is thinking "im not gonna talk to him first because he might got a gf..if he wants to talk to me then he will come up to talk to me." Most girls are the ones that get sick and tired of ALWAYS being the ones to approach the guysfirst..and they just give up. I know if I see a guy looking at me..im not gonna go up to him because he might not be looking at me for all the right reason. If he wants to talk to me then he will come up to me and approach me nicely..and not be like "hey ma whats yo name? can i get yo numba" that is like sooo tacky. they can be like "hey whats up? my name is so and so. what's your name?" But yahh anyways girls dont make themselves like that.the guys do! ♥

Answer 10

The girls that seem unapproachable are probably the ones that are worth hanging in there for, as who wants a girl who sits down and begs when you say 'sit, beg'. I heard you say ' I do' but I dont think you really do.

Answer 11

some girls are dumb. end of story.

or maybe you're just imagining the "insecure/sad" look. most women really, really do NOT want to be approached at the gym.

try not to make it all about you -- it's not a personal insult.