Ok, my friend just went out with this guy. I hang w/ her alot and started to like him. Even though he was dating her, he hugged me alot and hung out w/ me alot too, and one time he said " I'm not going if your not" to me. We would talk on the phone alot! He called me late at night most the time. They broke up and she blames everything on me and told us to go die. So today he gave me his hoody and I still have it over the weekend. He found out i like him and still treats me normally. People tell me he likes me and some say "just friends". What do you think? Please Help! Does he like me?
2006-12-08 16:36:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Doesn't matter if he does or not, he was mean to his girlfriend and he'll be mean to you in about 2-3 weeks.
2006-12-08 16:38:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are plenty of fish in the pond ,,,, Why pick this guy ? ,,,, You might concider putting yourself in your friends place ,,,, Would you like some one doing this to you ? ,,,, Or is this guy more important than your friend ,,,, Friendships last allot longer than the situation you are in with this guy ,,,, Another thing you might concider is that if he's doing this to your friend and you are next in line then stand by for some pay back because what goes around comes around ,,,, He'll get tired of you too and then where are you at ,,,,, No boyfriend and no friend ,,,, What's more important to you ?
2006-12-09 00:47:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him if he likes you...that way you will not beat yourself up with the guessing game. Just remember that guys come and go...but true friends are there for a lifetime. So weigh it out...is this guy worth maybe losing your girl friend? I would just hate to hear that you lost her b/c of him, and you realize it too late. Just talking from my past. Good luck!
2006-12-09 00:40:58 · answer #3 · answered by iwannavacuum84 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think ur friend is rt, u stabbed her in the back. u was not a very good friend going behind her back talking to him. what if it was reversed and she did it to u. the thing is she never really got a chance to find out if it was going to work between them. remember something good friends r hard to come by. lets say u and him start dating and he breaks ur heart them who will be there to help pick up the pieces, who will u turn to?
2006-12-09 01:04:46 · answer #4 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hii i care its right as u see it all started by meeting becoming friends its true some friends dont eye to eye allways over other friends but things do change in time of cose your friends but all love grows from that with time its sheing living life caring if things do happen they have to for a reason so just wait care nice to eachother and see love can grow from that .
2006-12-09 00:48:01 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he does... maybe..or he is a player.
In the future.....if a guy ever does that- you DO NOT play along. You say "so and so is my friend- while you are dating her I do not feel comfortable doing XYZZ behind her back". Nothing more-no flirting - TRYING to hang up (you can hang up).
Your friend will hopefully be forever. Guys come and go.
2006-12-09 00:40:02 · answer #6 · answered by Mommyk232 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Friends are always there for you you never leave a friend for a man because he will elave you just as fast for another one of your friends on top of that, thats your friend you never do that to a friend if you value your friendship and know the true meaning of being a friend you know the answer to this question
2006-12-09 00:39:26 · answer #7 · answered by crrousey 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry but i dont think you were being a very good friend to her.
And she has every right to be upset with you.
One good advise i can give you is drop the guy.
Sounds like he is using you as second best and you deserver better then that,
2006-12-09 00:41:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with 2dogs.
And what kind of person would that make you if you choose him over your friend ? He'll treat you just the same and think less of you whether he likes to admit it or not knowing that's how easy it was for him with you.
2006-12-09 00:40:29 · answer #9 · answered by Em 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The first thing you should think about is your friend because if you value her you need to think about this.
With regards to this guy he sounds like a jerk. No offense. Yes, it does seem like he likes you BUT if he doesn't make a move I would begin to wonder if he's a flirt. Be careful.
2006-12-09 00:41:53 · answer #10 · answered by ←Shea→ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋