Me and a girl from school went to a party on Friday night. It looked like she had a good time, we talked a lot while we were there, etc. But ever since Monday, she hasn't said a word to me. She usually comes up and talks to me everyday, but now she kind of avoids me when i get near her to try to talk to her. Why is she doing this and how can i talk to her? (Nothing wierd happened friday night, we had a good time...... well, I know I did, and it looked like she did too). Also, what could i have done wrong if she is pissed off?
2006-12-08 16:31:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no need at this point to blame yourself.
It might have nothing to do with you, she may just have something on her mind and all she needs is some time to figure it out.
Sometimes people just need a little space and freedom.
Stay cool and until you know what's going on there is no need to make any assumptions.
So just stay friendly and if you get the chance ask her how she's doing and if she wants to open up she will, so there is no need to pressure her to get an answer.
All the best
2006-12-08 16:46:31 · answer #1 · answered by Spandito 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe shes just busy or some rumor went on about you liking her and shes not ready for that so shes trying to avoid so you wont like her as a crush. but i could be wrong try talking to her again because alot of girls do that.
2006-12-09 00:35:07 · answer #2 · answered by Thrills 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's 1 of 2 reasons....1-she figured out you're a dweeb....or 2-she saw something better at the party,and being with you didn't let her shop around.Sad...but true.
2006-12-09 00:37:42 · answer #3 · answered by heavy_metal_glocknroll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's not interested anymore. Is there a way that you pissed her off or made her mad?
Sometimes I ignore people when I have these "mood swings".
Maybe you should ask her~
2006-12-09 00:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by curious~me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like you don't care, put her on ice, don't talk to her (but don't act like you're mad - you just don't really care), and suddenly she'll be the one who is panicking about what is going on in your mind - she'll be chasing you.
The point is instead of worrying about why she's ignoring you, just re-take control.
2006-12-09 00:35:07 · answer #5 · answered by FSJD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go talk to her... she doesnt have to come to you especially if she needs to find you everyday you should be doing the exploring
2006-12-09 00:35:34 · answer #6 · answered by e)v1n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahh girls are weir even though i am one of them.
maybe after hanging out with you she realized that you are not who she thought you were. and she doesnt want to get involved even more. i dont know. Just ASK HER then youll know for sure.
2006-12-09 00:36:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she had a really good time ad she likes you but she doesnt think that you'll go out with her/ ask her out and she's afraid to ask you
2006-12-09 00:33:49 · answer #8 · answered by kind2all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she likes you and she is embarrased. try sending notes and ask her out, you obviously like her.
2006-12-09 00:33:46 · answer #9 · answered by celinuchis90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hard to say
i mean even you who was w/ her cant figure out
not to mention us, the ppl who dont know her or you for that matter
2006-12-09 00:33:32 · answer #10 · answered by mango 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋