Alright. so i met the sweetest guy ever. We went out for 3 months. Then his cousin told me some things about him that i was concerned about. It was purely gossip, but i was stupid and believed some of the things that were said.She told me "don't trust him, he is a liar" and "he is just using you". I wasn't sure what i wanted to believe, because he hates her and she hates him. So one day i was talking to him on the phone about random stuff. Then, because the things i was told were bothering me, i decided to tell him what his cousin told me.(she told me not to tell anyone).
I just should have kept my mouth shut....i seriously reget saying anything, but i wanted to be completely open and honest with him. I didnt wanna keep anything from him.Well, he pretty much flipped out. He told me that he would call me back...he never did. Ends up that the next day he broke up with me. He said that he couldnt trust me, and that he didnt think that i trusted him.How do i get him back? I still love him.
2006-12-08 16:23:31 · 6 answers · asked by helpmeout 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From experience, going back with an ex is going to cause some drama. There will always be that tension from the time you broke up in the past. I know it works out sometimes. Such as the case with my parents, they dated and then broke up but found eachother later in life and things worked for them. Not everything works out that way. It usually doesn't. You have to think if this is worth pursuing. I made the mistake of pursuing an ex and it has caused me nothing but turmoil. I've never been so miserable. I am attempting to get over all that has occured. Time will heal but how much time is enough? If you deeply believe that things will be better this time then go for it. Just be careful. When trust is broken it is hard to regain.
Use your mind eventhough it seems so much easier to use your heart. I wish you the best of luck though!
2006-12-08 16:37:09 · answer #1 · answered by confused soul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why he got upset. U wanted to be honest and just wanted to know what was going on. He can't be mad because u said something. He would've been even more mad if u kept it in. I know it hurts but u should let things cool down. Then tell him exactly how u feel.
2006-12-08 16:30:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him cool down for a few days. Then, ask him out for a movie or something. Dont talk bout your relationship with him. Just hang out like good friends. Good luck!
2006-12-08 16:29:18 · answer #3 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exactly what you feel, and how he's been a benefit to your life.
2006-12-08 16:25:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him a muffler for his car, guys like mufflers
2006-12-08 16:25:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
duh!! tanga na nga guy!!.
2006-12-08 16:29:11 · answer #6 · answered by pretty_1016 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋