He left 1 yr ago, we have went thru a lot, every time I ask him if he would like us to move closer so we can be together, he says yes, but he hasn't so much as looked into possible places for us. Am I being a fool for love or should I just let him go? HE thinks I am being unfaithful, but after a years time, I don't want someone else. What do I do?
2006-12-08 16:22:03 · 8 answers · asked by commited29 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok if he is saying you are unfaithful then chances are it is him that is doing something. Most of the time when a guy says something like that then they are doing something. You have two choices here either tell him to get lost or tell him to find you a place close to him now. Or you can always make a suprise trip to see him, that would catch him if he is cheating on you. Don't always wait for him to do things, If i was you i would take a little trip and not tell him and just show up to visit him and go from there. If he is cheating on you, you will find out real fast from his actions and reaction from you being there.
2006-12-08 16:34:55 · answer #1 · answered by Will 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe plan a visit without his knowledge and see what actually going on. That's a long time to go take care of your parent and I'd think a long time ago he would have made plans for you to either come there or him bring his mother to your home. I'm sorry but things just don't sound right. Good luck to you. ;o)
2006-12-08 16:30:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally, I don't like the idea of ultimatums, but how long will he be taking care of his mother? Give him a date to either be home with you or move you to where he is. If he argues or won't do it, then have a good attorney send him his walking papers.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-08 16:27:01 · answer #3 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight.....he left....a YEAR ago ? Is there any way to call Mom and see how she is etc.....and check on this crap at the same time ? Something smells rotten......I'd want proof positive before I'd make up my mind 100%.
2006-12-08 16:27:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust him and try to be with him the most as possible.
2006-12-08 16:24:40 · answer #5 · answered by celinuchis90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and forget him
2006-12-08 16:24:25 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DONT REALLY THINK A MAN WOULD HAVE SEX WITH HIS MOM.. COME ON GIRL
2006-12-08 16:23:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he has a second wife.
2006-12-08 16:24:47 · answer #8 · answered by a_bike_guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋