wrong or right?was i horrible 4 doing this?cuz thats how i feel :(
This boy I like likes me back.He asked if i had a cellphone,i nodded my head,then he asked if i had a bf and if i wanted one and i shrugged and shook my head. :( He asked for my number.I just looked away and didn't respond~ he was like yes or no?what did i do.I looked into his eyes and then looked away .Such an idiot i am.So when the bell rang he just left .I want to go out with him sssooooo bad but hes so loud,popular and smart too,way smart.I'm so shy,quiet,unpopular and loserish. What will other people say about us?I think a whole bunch of girls in the school like him too. What do i do?he knows that im really really shy and quiet.should i just try talking to him or what?
should i just be like hi_____(his name) on monday when i c him in class?
I'm scared to go to school and see him scared out of my mind.....I know that I'm just going to look at him and say nothing :( i messed up BAD and I just want to be with him
2006-12-08 16:12:27 · 9 answers · asked by lucy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all I want you to think about this.
Your image of yourself is just that ... an image. You can change and become whatever you want. You just need to believe it first. Please please please stop caring what other people think. They don't know what to think and will change their opinions one million times between now and next year so stop placing value on it. Just try to have fun and be a good person that respects others and they will respect you as long as they have some class.
There will be haters out there. Leave them to their pettiness. Start dating someone desireable. You have a life to enjoy and anyone not willing to play your game can go watch from the sidelines cause you have no time for them.
ON monday write your number and a good time to call on a piece of paper and give it to him. Then leave it to him.
He is smart and popular that means he probably doesn't see people in negative ways. Your shyness may be mysterious to him. At least you aren't one of those haters that he will have no time for either right :). Your a sweet person I can tell from your question so I'm sure he will enjoy becoming your friend.
Good luck.
2006-12-08 16:23:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your instincts little sister, it could be you had inner feelings that he isn't right for you. Just because he is popular and all that, doesn't mean he is right for you. My Mom used to say that if everyone else was going to jump off a bridge, are you going to follow just because it is popular.
2006-12-08 16:16:21 · answer #2 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't worry so much play it cool. It sounds like he already likes you so you already have that going for you...Next time you see him say hey and ask him if he still wants your number...if he says yes. Give it to him! Good Luck and try not to sweat it so much..with or with out him you'll be fine.
2006-12-08 16:17:33 · answer #3 · answered by thereis 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, talk to him and ask him if HE had a girlfriend and if he would like to have one then maybe he'd guess you want the same thing. it doesn't matter what people think about you and your partner what matters if that your happy. good luck and talk to him I know its hard, but I'm really shy too.
2006-12-08 16:18:32 · answer #4 · answered by celinuchis90 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
on Monday walk up with a piece of paper with you number on it and say Hope to hear from yah real soon.
2006-12-08 16:20:19 · answer #5 · answered by sunnied001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHY DIDNT YOU SAY ANYTHING WHEN YOU HAD THE CHANCE?! If a guy asks you for your number you give it to him!! Don't say no.. or walk away. Give it a chance! If you end up not liking him dump him!
2006-12-08 16:15:51 · answer #6 · answered by Xx_I<3RocK_xX 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just flash him a smile next time you'll see him.. remain in ur personality, afterall, if he really likes you, he would ask you again and again about that thing..
2006-12-08 16:17:11 · answer #7 · answered by glee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
shouldn't u be proud that he chose you over all those other girls then? just go for it. seriously.
2006-12-08 16:16:07 · answer #8 · answered by indecisive 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should say that u want him
2006-12-08 16:14:34 · answer #9 · answered by Wacking_Jerry 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋