Whats the best way to handle the situation?

Question

Recently after dating for a while, i told her i liked her, however she is dealing with a lot of issues right now and says she needs to get her head streight before she makes a decision one way or another... i trust her but at the same time this sounds like a line (I have reason to trust her since the issues are real), i also dont know now weather i should act like just a friend and pretend i didnt say anything or what i should do? The thing is i think she likes me but just has too much on her plate right now... but i dont know if that fits with what she told me, since she said she USED to like me earlier on... but we havnt known eachother long.. so basically... how do i act now that all this is out on the table?

Answer 1

Well all I can advise you to do is to respect her decision. That's the best you can do regardless of how phony it may sound to you, but just take her word for it. Yeah, that maybe a line, but she's doing it pretty gracefully. That's a nice way of just letting you down easy if that is the case. But if it were me, I would put her on the backburner since she claims to have a lot on her plate than that means that she's not going to be making you a top priority anytime soon or at all. So I would just test the waters and don't fret about the situation, shop around! Go fish! And you said you haven't known her long, so really what have you really lost in all of this? Sometimes when it comes to dating you gotta cut your losses, and if the opportunity presents itself it will on its own if you're still bookmarking that same page in your life.

Answer 2

You already sound a little stressed out over this, just continue to be her friend and if its meant to be then it will be.

Answer 3

continue to be her friend, even if you don't get her, you patient would be totally hot