ok so i have this crush on this guy. I am good friends with him but I want to be more than that. I think he just thinks of me as like his buddy. I am kind of a shy person and i want to ask him out but i know people will make fun of me if he says no. I talk to him a lot but i don't know how to ask him out. WHAT SHOULD I DO????
2006-12-08 15:19:07 · 9 answers · asked by delzzers 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am in a very similar situation, however I'm in 9th grade not middle school. but anyways... i suggest not asking him out.the best way to find out if he likes you is to talk to his friends.if he does then convince his friends to talk to him and have him ask YOU out. if it doesn't work out then there will be other guys. i know it might not seem like it now but everything happenes for a reason
2006-12-08 15:23:32 · answer #1 · answered by xo marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask him out when you two are in private, tell him if he doesn't feel the same way, you don't want your friendship to suffer. He should'nt tell anyone if he's a good friend. He may just be shy, too!
Good luck!
2006-12-12 21:55:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? You should make an attempt to find out if he likes u. You never know, he might like you, and maybe he's too shy to tell him. Maybe you should tell him how you feel without asking him out. Maybe he'll ask u. ;)
2006-12-08 23:26:11 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Boricua♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably feels the same way about you....ask if he wants to hang out and go bowling or miniture golf, something the two of you can do for fun that is out in the wide open
2006-12-08 23:22:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just sit down and talk tohim one day when you can hang out. See what he feels about it. If not then you will always be close friends. I had the same thing and he's my best friend.
2006-12-08 23:25:58 · answer #5 · answered by pullersgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out on the phone. if he says he just wants to be friends not one will find out because you are good enough friends that he wouldnt tell anyone.
2006-12-08 23:22:06 · answer #6 · answered by partyalldaydanceallnight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...you are in middle school dont worry about it...high school brings hope...there are a ton of people in high school and more of a selection, but if u relly like him then just tell him personaly its going to be hard but let it out
2006-12-08 23:28:18 · answer #7 · answered by baurmurza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your only in middle school go wild with boys teat out how you are so your reADy for high school relationships
2006-12-08 23:21:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol who cares wat other's think? they'll all be jealous once he does say yes! lol And im having the same problems so dont worry. If you want to talk more about it just message me!
2006-12-08 23:25:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋