this dude cheated on his girlfriend with me and he feels horrible about it. he also says he cannot talk to me right now because he feels so horrible and bad. he says he has these panic attacks beause afraid it will get back to her even though i'm not one of those people to tell their girlfriend. the guy even lies abot how long he been with her now after he cheated.. he says he been with her for 2 yrs but really it only been 2 months. now he is even lying about how long his relationship has been with her. he is saying he regrets it and feels so bad. do you think he is just saying this because he feels bad about cheating on her? even though he feels this way now because it only happened a week ago, do you think he would do it again even though he said he can't even though it only been only a week since it occured? he said it was the first time he ever cheated too. just wondering. thank you. do you think he just couldn't resist me that night?LOL. haha. hope i dont sound like a dork
2006-12-08 15:09:43 · 17 answers · asked by sarah s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound very mean and selfish.
Think of the other girl! He feels bad because he did a bad thing. He probably only used you, it is obviously the other girl that he truly cares for.
2006-12-08 15:14:26 · answer #1 · answered by Contessa 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not gonna be mean and call you a ho or anything because i don't know all the circumstances and therefore am not going to judge... I'm just gonna say what i think you should do... and the first thing is to leave him alone im afraid... i know its harsh but from the sounds of it he really wants to be with this other girl... it would be horrible if you did break apart their relationship.... secondly i would suggest finding someone else.... i see that many other people on here have blamed just you for what happened but it was as much his fault as it is yours.... on that note i would suggest you find someone else who isn't a cheater and who you can have a proper relationship with.... this guy sounds worthless but at least he is remorseful... don't go chasing after him.. think of how you would feel if you were in his girlfriend's position and you found out what had happened.... and i bet you wouldn't feel very good....as mean as i may sound I'm trying to be as nice as possible about this... i don't condone what you did but to make up for it just make sure it doesn't happen again... that would be the biggest thing for you to do...
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2016-04-29 07:31:33 · answer #3 · answered by son 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How not to feel bad about cheating? How about NOT having any girlfriends. Everyone is saying that you shouldn't cheat... true, so why not try being unattached and play the field. What is a girlfriend providing for you that makes you believe you have to have one? Why commit to a relationship that you are not committed to in the first place. Just stay single and spare these girl's their feelings.
2016-03-29 00:28:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-18 18:42:56 · answer #6 · answered by Taylor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got terribly played
-A lot of guys that I've talked to that were cheating told me that they have to have a wifey (their main g/f) and a ho/usable girl, to even things out in their lives..They need a girl they have no respect for so they can do disrespectful things to them that they wouldn't do to their g/f because they love them too much..Take a guess at which woman you are???
You were nothing more to him but cheap entertainment, he obviously feels guilty and wants to start new with his girlfriend, so just leave him alone and find a man that will love you, you deserve it..STOP YOUR HOMEWREKING what comes around goes around
Dont be somebodys side-dish..Besides, you dont want to get yourself involved with a cheater anyway..Tell that fool to kick rocks
2006-12-08 15:38:50 · answer #7 · answered by IceQueen 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-26 16:41:30 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you guys talking about? i'm only 20 and he's 20. i did not have sex with him. i never said i had sex with the guy so why are you guys calling me a homewrecker and stuff when I DID NOT sleep with him!!!!! you guys act like i fucked the guy when i did not. also, yeah he says it was a mistake because he never cheated before and says he always says panic attacks so you guys have no right to call me a ho. i didn't innitiaze the meeting. i actually wanted to wait to meet him but he wanted to meet that night beause he said his gf comes down the next week and two weeks was too long to meet because he said he wanted to see my *** in person but things got done to asking to see stuff so i showed him and he said stuff that made him want to hook up with me. i was not trying to ruin the guys relatonship, we both were in the mood and wanetd to have fun and i did not think about it.
IT WAS JUST A HOOKUP! IT DID NOT LEAD TO SEX! were both college students so what do you expect.
2006-12-09 07:02:09 · answer #9 · answered by sarah s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's times like this that I really hope Karma works.I pray someone does the same to you.For F**ks sake your making the bloke ill,leave him alone you kinda going on like a stalker,you got played and he's thinking of you as a mistake.Get some self respect girl...and your own man!
2006-12-08 18:21:05 · answer #10 · answered by snikleback 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋