sooo, we went out. It was all a big mistake and it was a rebound relationship. The problem is that i'm a senior in high-school, and on the night i broke up with her she was apparently planning to tell me that she 'loved me.' Its been three months and she still isn't giving up hope. The problem is that i want to ask another girl out, but i think that my ex has been warning all the girls away. Also...my friends and i were planning to go to london as a senior trip..and she wormed her way onto it (no one had the heart to tell her no.) Anyways...i'm pretty obvious about the fact that i don't like her and i've had a couple hookups since then (which she gets mad about) how do i get her to leave me alone?
2006-12-08 15:03:13 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
haha, just to clear up one thing, it was my rebound...and she knows who i'm going to ask out and has been telling them to stay away
2006-12-08 15:31:59 · update #1
Hi,
I usually give advice about how to get a girl but I guess I can do the opposite this time.
What I suggest is to do some reverse engineering and look at what are the common mistakes guys make to lose a girl.
1. Not confident
2.Acting nervous
3.Being too available
4.Cheating
5.Being boring
and so on. You could do some research and try to mimmick theese things or...
You could just tell her to leave you the hell alone (My personal favorite option).
2006-12-08 17:34:25 · answer #1 · answered by Chad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you went out but not for how long or whether it involved sex. I'm guessing it did. You said it was a rebound relationship, but not whose. I'm guessing it was hers, in which case you took advantage of her. In three months since, you had a couple of hookups. Now you want to ask another girl out, and what's stopping you? This is high school, how many opportunities do you need in order to ask her? You get them on a daily basis. Maybe girl #1 didn't warn others off, maybe you just got a reputation. Enjoy your trip to London. If you don't like what life is dealing you, you should stop trying to deserve it.
2006-12-08 23:29:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cuss her silly azz out in front of EVERYBODY, scream at the beezie like she's a crowd! Get in her face like an angry coach and tell the beezie to get lost or better yet tell her to take a long walk off a short bridge with her bullsh*t. Tell her to stop being a salt shaker, she's chasing the broads away with her wolfpussy.
2006-12-08 23:17:47 · answer #3 · answered by Téa LaFaye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First- Treat her the way you would want to be treated. Remember it is better to react less than more here because time at your age will do it's own shifting. I have a feeling if she goes on this trip, she will suddenly discover the world of men and guess what, she will decide she wants more room. watch and see
2006-12-08 23:17:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've already kindly told her that you don't want to be with her then simply go on with your life and when she gets the hint she'll back off.
Also.. I can guarantee you that most women can't be "warned away" from a guy. They usually make their own decisions.
2006-12-08 23:07:18 · answer #5 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm wow interesting answers but no...
my friend we'll call him JTHM has a similar problem. He simply told her he didn't like her anymore and that she should go find someone else to make her happy. He told her that if she truly loves him that all she'd want is for him to be happy. Corny? yes very but it works.
~mel the Miserable~
~12/08/06~
2006-12-08 23:13:45 · answer #6 · answered by Whatsername 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just completely ignore her. Being mean to her isn't going to work. They seem to like that more for some reason and you might not have the heart to do all of that.
2006-12-08 23:09:32 · answer #7 · answered by A-Town Soulja 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY don't u just give her the attention she deserves...Come on poor gurl...just pay attention to her and find out what she really wants...of course if she loves you try and figure out a way you can make her your friend and little by little she will forget about you...Good Luc k
2006-12-08 23:06:50 · answer #8 · answered by ChIkaBuEnA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sort of depends on how desperate you are.
If its gotten to the point where it seems like shes never going to give up, sit her down, tell her how you feel. If that doesn't work....avoid her at all costs?
2006-12-08 23:07:34 · answer #9 · answered by katherine_the_impaler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...it's easy just tell her you don't fell the way you used to feel about her....I'm almost positive she'll understand. And if she STILL bothers you...well, you've heard of a restraining order right?
2006-12-08 23:07:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋