Whats the best way to get over someone you love?

Question

Have you ever been in a long relationship and love the person so much? But then way down the road we do nothing but argue over the stupidest things. I just broke up with him b/c i hate, hate, hate, this relationship..but still lovin' him...HELP me..puh leeze

Answer 1

I think you should take some time for yourself. Do the things that you like to do; spend time with friends and family. Regroup before you decide to jump into another relationship. It takes time, be patient.

Answer 2

i have only had one relationship i was 18 and he was 33 i am 43 and he is 57. we did the same thing, the relationship was not built on solid ground, it will never get better, maybe just maybe if time changes each of u , u will get back together, but please try just growing on the inside. when u know it is the relationship that is a bad thing, set patterns were already made so now all u can do is stay away as i am and build a friendship that can blossom back into that love. trust is the most important thing absence makes the heart grow founder good luck know the feeling been there all my life

Answer 3

Face it sweet. Can you imagine what your relationship will be like when you both wake up in the morning with bad breath.
Time is not a complete healer, but it helps you cope with the situation. Love is special, and when there is a well deep with love, the relationship is beautiful. Very few couples find this kind of love. There is no perfect bonding between couples, but the strength of a love for each other surpasses any problems. Bring children into the world and you have just complicated your marriage.
I was married for 48 years and my wife recently passed away, and I miss her so very much. You can't prepare yourself for this day.Each day was not perfect, but her smile looked like the sunrise and sunsets of each day.

Answer 4

you may have to start talkin to someone else to get over him. yall relationship was goin down the drain. once you start to always argue over the stupidest things that the sign of an ending relationship

Answer 5

Time is the best healer. And it may help you both to realize that you either want the relationship back or you don't want it at all. Get out and do things and each of you can take time to sort through things in your head.
Absence sometimes makes the heart grow fonder.

Answer 6

Yup after a 3 year relationship I ended it, I regrated it for a long time about a year. but now two years later I am so happy i am not with this person anymore. It really doea take a longgg time to forget about this person and really realize that you are better of not being with this person.

Answer 7

as many guys named DICK and date them all
or if you do not want to look just for guys named DICK then get as many D I C K S as you can and play with them all
as you already know with what you have down there, you can get all the D I C K S in the world all of them
and that is the key
just do it
and in a month you would have forgotten what it was you wanted to forget
go for it

Answer 8

It's not going to be easy and you shouldn't think it will be. You will never stop loving him and I understand you get in stupid arguments but that is petty. You two should just work it out, take a break or learn how to communicate effectively. I know and understand what your going through

Answer 9

If you fight constantly, you don't love him. You love the idea of having someone and not being lonely. People throw love around like a frisbee. Love is putting someone else's needs before yours. Fighting is crap. Face reality, don't be whiny, be an independent woman, and move on.

Answer 10

the best way to get over someone is the hardest way. to have no contact at all with the person. start fresh and move on and when you get over it you will be happier and so would the other person. seeing or talking with the person will just upset each other coz you'll still have feelings. it will make it harder. so its best with no contact at all.