This guy I know acts more flirty and stares at me more when I'm more fixed up. Does this mean he really doesn't like me for who I am? That he will never really see me for who I am inside. I've tried so hard to get him to notice me with just a little makeup and being the sweet kind fun person who I am. And sometimes I think it's working. He'll really look at me and act like he's into me and then boom he's back to just not even acknowledging me. So then I try to get his attention by fixing up more with more makeup and sexier outfit and hair done different. It seems to catch his attention for a little while. He acts a little different around me more nervous and flirty. But then back to his old self again. What's up with this guy? Is he just not into me really. And never will be. Should I just stop trying to attract his attention? Does it sound like he found me even minutely attractive?
2006-12-08 14:32:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, it sounds like he might find you attractive. I don't know why he's acting like this. My guess is that he doesn't even know what he wants himself. You can try anyway, though. Just don't expect too much. I feel bad for you, because I prefer girls to wear no makeup or almost no makeup (I like girls all-natural). Good luck!
2006-12-08 14:37:03 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he either likes u as u really are or he doesnt like u at all this guy is a pig(like all other guys are) he only looks at whats on the outside and when ur not fixed up he finds no interest in digging deeper to get to know u if ur sweet..kind...and fun then he should try to get to know all those highlights of who u are yet hes seeing the highlights in how u look which is truly wrong and unfair u dont need some guy whos never gonna pay attention to u unless u look like a supermodel its not right and u shouldnt put up with him act like hes not there cuz when he comes beggin that will be his own problem were not "things" to just be there for looks
2006-12-08 22:38:56 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not trying to say that you are bad looking. But some average looking girls can be very appealing when they dress nicely and do some thing with their hair. I don't know if he likes you. He is either attracted to you and to shy to carry it out. Or he is only attracted to you when you dress up. I'd say, let him go. You know, kind of test him. If he really likes you, he'll come back to prove that he's your guy. If not, then you ended your problem and you don't have to see him anymore. I hope that this helped.
2006-12-08 22:39:14 · answer #3 · answered by TheSilverBeetles 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is playing games... wants what he cant have and once he can he loses interest... or the game has gotten to easy.... just ignore him and his advances and he will see what it feels like to play games....
2006-12-08 22:37:57 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋