i have a frined who may be using me... (?)?

Question

i have been friends with this girl for about 5-6 months. She started comming over only when she discovered that i had a brother that she thot was cute. Also when a boy asked me out. But now that she knows she has no chance w/ my bro cuz he is gay she doesnt really visit unless she knows my b/f is comming over! i dont understand bcuz my bro doesnt live w/ my anymore.. I thin k she likes my boyfriend?? help...

Answer 1

well ask her what her deal is? i mean it does seem shady that all she wants from you is the men in your life, instead of being friends with you.

So ask her why she is even friend with you? i mean does she know anything about you? like music, food, movies in taste? does she even talk to you about anything besides her and wondering about what guy she can get?

she seems selfish and a snot...so i would just ask her if she's geuniue in your relationship or not...if she doesn't care that your upset about this...then end the friendship.

its not worth the stress of wondering if she's going to steal your guy...a real friend wouldn't want to be with you just cause of guys...

i mean if my friend was with me just cause she wanted my brother or boyfriend....i would get rid of her fast...she doesn't care about anything but herself...

Answer 2

dump her! Besides 5 to 6 months really isn't a long enough time to really get to know someone. Or, you can just take a break from her and let her know you need some space-or not let her know and just claim you're too busy with the holidays and all. Maybe, she is just lonely. But all in all-take a break or get rid of her!

Answer 3

Tell her to back off and explain to her that you feel like you're being used and the only time she pops up is when she want something she think she can have and you don't appreciate that at all because if she was really you're friend she wouldn't do that.

Answer 4

Shave. you do no longer could desire to overview how and why do you like permission? If her legs are furry adequate to difficulty her then she could shave. purchase a razor on the drugstore, they have much less costly ones, and drag it over the leg in rows till clean of hair, appropriate finished interior the tub crammed with water and shaving cream could make it less complicated. by no potential dry shave- are you able to declare rugburns????????????? tell your chum that ok- whats her mom gonna verify her for hair? playstation Nair can reallly burn on even mildly gentle skin and it reeks- i odnt care what heady scent the bottle says

Answer 5

Just start to spend less time with her. It really doesn't sound like she's your friend at all. Eventually, she'll get the point that you don't want to be her friend.

Answer 6

Well, just come out and ask her of her actions. Then, you'll know where the 2 of stand.....friends or foes . ?
Why beat around the bush.....you're curious, aren't you? Then for goodness sake........ask this question of her.
You, of all people, know this answer already... confront her then.
merrry x-mas and happy new years......

Answer 7

omg well she used ya and is prolly afta ya man too.. u need to do some damage control on this one and keep ya man on check just in case

Answer 8

kinda looks that way, She's not much of a friend anyway, time to kick her to the curb!!!!

Answer 9

if you have a friend that is usuing you then totally stop being their friend!! using people is SO not right! ♥

Answer 10

she's not a friend to begin with. she's got her own agenda going on.