to fuss, or not ot fuss?

Question

the past three friday nights my boyfriend has told me he had to stay at home, but then goes to town and doesn't tell me. but we ALWAYS do something Saturday&Saturday night this is the third time. this time he said he called. which could be true because i was in a no service area and couldn't receive calls. i know everyone needs some time without their "significant other", but why lie about it?

what do i do about this?
do i fuss & fight? or just ignore it?

Answer 1

Let it go.....life is too short. But at some point tell him it's not cool with you. That he needs to just tell you the thruth.

Answer 2

"Sendr 98" & "Jedi Dude 28" basically have this question nailed but I just have to comment on the answer given by "*~ Love Is A Battlefield *~" about ep VI: Return Of The Jedi. The movies should be redone because if the Jedi return it should be like it was in the prequels ?????????????????????????????? Seems like you have missed a VERY important part of ep III ... umm ... Vader and Palpatine pretty much killed ALL of the Jedi ... the title "Return Of The Jedi" is meant to mean that the Jedi are "returning" because of the actions of Luke Skywalker. For all intents and purposes he is the ONLY Jedi alive at the time. At this point in the time line there are only 3 known Force users left alive in the Star Wars galaxy ... Palpatine, although the "general public" doesn't know that he is a Force user, Vader and Luke. I would think it common sense to realize that since there is only one living Jedi at the time of the movie that they couldn't have 1000s of Jedi in the movie. To "mplsundin" ... if you were to dig a little deeper into the explanation give by Lucas for Leia's memories of her mother you might be a little more able to accept it ... maybe not as it is a bit on the "weak" side but it DOES work. MTFBWY

Answer 3

Well fussing and fighting would probably just make matters worse. Ignoring it won't make it go away. I think the best thing for you to do is to talk to your boyfriend about it and let him know how you feel.

Answer 4

hun, i know its real hard to believe, but he is cheating. or else he would be putting all hes got into the relationship, and by the sound of what your saying, hes not. So hes either in the act of cheating, or hes on the verge of it, with some other girl on his mind.


but before jumping to conclusions, because i know not all of my accusations are correct, i would just simply ask him about it,

sit him down and say,
why arent we spending enough time together?
how come you lied to me,
and then lead up to the question,
do you even want to stay together, or is there some other girl you had on your mind.

i hope my advice helped you, and i wish you the best of luck!!

~Amarie

Answer 5

I would fuss over it and find out what is going on some people would think that they are cheating.. I would comfront him and i would do it like today

Answer 6

try talking to him and not at him. tell him you feel uncomfortable with the sneakiness. remind him that you want a relationship with open communication about anything. if he still does it then it may be a sign of lack of respect and could mean it's time to move on.

Answer 7

grl i dont now bout you but if that were my bf, i would starting fussing (just a little tho! not too much). i would ask him why he didnt tell me and show proof that hes not cheating on u or anything. and if it gets so frustrating you cant take it anymore, start "investigating". (not spying!) just investigating.......

Answer 8

dump Brandon...he's not being honest with you. the earlier you cut him loose the better off you will be. trust me...you WILL get over him. he will hurt you in the end with his lies...they wont stop as long as you keep letting him get away with it.

Answer 9

if he doesnt tell u hes going out
it meens he going somewhere that he knows that u would like

be careful

Answer 10

ignore it for sometime, give him another chance, he might have real situations or he's lying, you dont know for sure