isn't coming home for Christmas. She doesn't know that the daughter is coming as a surprise. I just hate to see her so sad. What do you think?
2006-12-08 14:03:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You can't spoil the suprise without permission from the daughter.
So tell her that she is getting the present of her dreams on christmas day OR tell her daughter how sad she is and leave it up to the daughter to sort it out!
2006-12-08 14:06:47 · answer #1 · answered by kiku 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happened to me, as the so called wicked mother in law, everybody new my parents were comming i had seen them in over a year because of distance. their being there for christmas was the best present i ever had. and nobody could have cried more are been more depressed than i was i dont think. let it be a suprise, and please give mother in law a small christmas present of a break.
2006-12-08 14:07:49 · answer #2 · answered by c504play 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the secret!! Take her out to lunch or do something nice for her. She will be so happy when the daughter arrives that maybe she will be in a good holiday mood and be nice to you!
Shelle
2006-12-08 14:28:57 · answer #3 · answered by shelle007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel so bad go see your mother in law and make her holidays joyful and happy! i got the comment and someone isnt very into the holiday feelings. but you should see your mom. have a merry christmas and a happy new year.even though you hate her its the holidays everyone has to show some love.
~Chevydiamonds
MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!
2006-12-08 15:42:09 · answer #4 · answered by Destineezzy !! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christmas is literally right around the corner and I say do not spoil her surprise "visit".
2006-12-08 14:06:02 · answer #5 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I purely rather rather wish the DIL on no account comes on right here and reads all the spite and anger that's directed at her. to submit with it in real existence could be hell yet then to have your each selection puzzled and plastered everywhere in the internet for each guy or woman to verify is purely downright nasty. mom in rules from hell could be made unlawful
2016-10-18 00:18:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel but you just have to bear it until she gets surprised!
2006-12-08 14:12:57 · answer #7 · answered by Dimples 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with jav g, buy her something and pray that the Good Lord helps her!
2006-12-08 14:06:13 · answer #8 · answered by SweetnSpiceyBrown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her, she'll love u for it. and if you don't tell her, and she is surprised with her daughters arrival, she's gonna ignore the living day lights out of ""you". so if you care for her attention, do what's good for "you" and take her to the side and tell her
2006-12-08 14:06:15 · answer #9 · answered by Butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't tell her.. instead cheer her up, ask her if she needs any help with her shopping (go with her), invite her over for dinner, etc.
2006-12-08 14:13:28 · answer #10 · answered by Midwest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋