This guy and i have been going out for about three months now and we get along so well and he used to call me everyday. Now he only calls me about twice a week. Im confused about wether he is going to ever going to ask me out or not. Even if we go out every weekend.
help!!
2006-12-08 13:52:50 · 19 answers · asked by mari 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes he likes you, he may just be a little busy.
2006-12-08 13:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best policy in any relationship. I wish they would start teaching communication classes in Jr. high school & high so you could see how easy it is to coomunicate with one another. I suggest the following you seem articulate..next time he calls ask him when your'e going to get together again .make a casual date and bring up your issues of concerns & feelings. Best to start with I want to tell you somethings I've been thinking about. I hope it doesn't make you feel uncomfortable and take it from there...I like you ... I like spending time doing things with you I 'm confused about the realtionship & some of my feelings & I was wondering about your thoughts. Worse case scenerio he'll look at you & say dah? I don't know what you're talking about and then you'll realize he's a meat head and find another guy who can form sentences and isn't afriad of his feelings or expressing them . Girls are more verbal than guys. You're going to have to guide this guy throiugh the rough waters...good luck and try to put this into perspective you guys aren't headed down the asile are you ? You're young freinds & possibly a little more. Good luck ! You can do it ! Girl Power !!!
2006-12-08 22:06:49 · answer #2 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well three months is not a long time, it sounds like he do want to get to much involved so fast, that he may be thinking that he may mess things up. Sometimes men get nerves of a lady that have the qualities that he Had's been looking for. It dint hurt to ask.
Hope that helps.
2006-12-08 21:59:09 · answer #3 · answered by Randi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry. You are the person he calls when he has no one better (second choice). If you really want to know how he feels about you, watch him at holidays. If he loves you, he has to be with you. This is not saying things won't improve, but I'd suggest you look elsewhere.
2006-12-08 21:57:02 · answer #4 · answered by J89434 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's more to this story than told, but anyway, just ask him and listen to what he say and then watch what he do, and make up your mind what you are going to do. be confused or be in control of your thoughts? the choice is always yours unless you give that choice to someone else to make for you.
2006-12-08 22:01:44 · answer #5 · answered by JCJC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should ask him, it's the best way to find out, or try asking some of his guy friends if he has said anything about you.
2006-12-08 21:56:49 · answer #6 · answered by wonderlandbaybe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like every realationship. At first everything is new and exciting, but now you all have been togrther for a little while its not as fun maybe.
2006-12-08 21:57:39 · answer #7 · answered by babygirl4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you go out on dates every weekend? sounds like a relationship 2 me. oh and maybe U should call HIM!
2006-12-08 21:54:56 · answer #8 · answered by Flutie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's been this long you could ask him if he sees anything relationshipwise in the future for the two of you. That's the only logical answer I can think of..
2006-12-08 21:54:31 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its going to feel scarey but you have to pull back further than him...dont be so available-turn down the next date-dont lie-just get busy with your life-if he doesnt start to show more interest after this-forget it-you already seem to care more and its the imbalance thats causing your anxiety...
2006-12-08 21:57:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounded like he has changed....
three months is a long time. I think you should ask him
Don't waste your time on wondering......
2006-12-08 21:57:35 · answer #11 · answered by BB2791 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋