me and my girl friend are really tight and were only in 7th grade we both really love each other i was just wondering what i could do to make her love me more (PLEASE HELP ME)
2006-12-08 13:48:16 · 16 answers · asked by matthew w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry Kiddo, but you cant force anyone to love you anymore then they already do. Just let her love you on her level for you who are!
2006-12-08 13:50:12 · answer #1 · answered by Issym 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Be the guy she knows and don't change.
Treat her right and show her how much you love.
I believe personally that you don't need to shower your loved one in gifts to show her how much you love her because love comes straight from the heart.
If the relationship is true and meant to be all you will have to do is show her what your heart has to offer, I'm not saying don't take her to a movie or dinner or buy her flowers or a teddy bear with her name on it, since I don't know what she is into but all I am saying is treat her right show her the love like I have said above and it will last for a long time. Good luck.
2006-12-08 13:53:32 · answer #2 · answered by Scott 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its great you guys are really tight for so young an age. As time goes by interest in each other may change or may not. The only way for her to do what you want is to voice it; tell her you want to be loved more, if she's willing you would be one of those lucky guys. Good luck.
2006-12-08 13:52:47 · answer #3 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
red roses. compliments. the small things are what really count with a girl.
we love everything that makes us feel like we're appreciated by you guys. i'm sure if you two love each other that much, you shouldn't have to worry about making her love you more.
but take her out to dinner or do something out of the ordinary for her. That at least will make her re-realize how much she appreciates you.
but you're still young and you two have a lot to learn still about relationships. even if you think you don't.
so keep growing and learning.
good luck.
2006-12-08 13:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by Jayden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time
2006-12-08 13:50:08 · answer #5 · answered by Diana J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant force someone into loving you, why would you want her to love you more? are you not satisfied with the love you are reciving from her?.. you can only be the best you can be, surprise her every now and then, always respect & listen, you'll eventually gain all the love you want from her, it takes time..does not happen over night. good luck.
2006-12-08 13:52:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any psychologist will tell you that you cannot force other people to love you. You cannot change any part of their behavior. You can only change yourself.
If you want her to give you more attention, then try to be someone that she wants to be around. Share her interests, ask her what she's thinking, and offer to carry her books from time to time.
2006-12-08 13:50:47 · answer #7 · answered by Link Correon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk Away
2006-12-08 13:50:53 · answer #8 · answered by beetle beater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too young to know what love is but be confident/funny and don't cling to her. Buying someone gifts and telling them you love them constantly just says "I don't have enough to offer you but these presents should help!"
2006-12-08 13:54:25 · answer #9 · answered by LastManDancing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find this question distracting, pathetic and hilarious! what made you think that your girlfriend is not loving you enough as you think she should? DO YOU KNOW WHAT LOVE IS? THIS IS SILLY MEING!!! you cannot use quantity to measure love. LOVE IS LOVE, LOVE IS ABSTRACT its not materialistic, its not something you can touch. If you're asking this question? I'm wondering does she even love you anymore?
2006-12-08 13:55:21 · answer #10 · answered by Caitlynn L 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋