Me and my girlfriend broke up a month ago because she likes someone else and after 18 months she goes out with him the next day. she says that she still loves me and feels the same and shes even cheated on her boyfriend. She says that she need time but i dont like her with this other guy. Shes my first and only love and i miss her more than anything and everytime i do something it reminds me of her what do i do
2006-12-08 13:43:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should forget about her. She says she needs time, but the problem isn't that . . . it is that she does not have the nerve to tell you that you're through. The reason she got with that other guy so fast is that she had gotten over your relationship by the time she broke up. I bet it took you by surprise, but it was deteriorating all along. She may have been seeing this other guy toward the end too. Don't worry about it, but next time try to pay attention to your gf's attitude more closely. And you should give up on this one, because she isn't coming back (and would you REALLY want her back, after doing something like this to you?). Good luck with the next one!
2006-12-08 13:48:47 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about her and move on.At times the thought of someone being your first love makes you overlook certain shortcomings in the relationship.She can't keep you waiting ,dude.Your life should not cease because she can't come to a decision.What if she comes back to you and in a twist of events feels the same way about this new guy.There's possibility that she could use this excuse to see this boy if you do come together.If you love someone so much you don't need months to love them again.
Let's say that she went for this guy because she felt lonely when you broke up,but now if she loves you and wants you back why is she hesitating in taking you back?Do i make sense here? Wise up boy.
2006-12-08 13:54:10 · answer #2 · answered by Phy A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop waiting. Believe me, I've been on that boat before...finally after a couple months I moved on, and my ex was pissed!! But too bad for him, because if he wanted me, he would have been with me right? Same for you. She's having fun with a next guy, and wants you waiting in the wings just in case her new relationship doesn't work out. She doesn't have true feelings for you if she's chosen someone else over you.
Cut off all contact with her. That will make it a little easier to get over her...go out with some friends, and meet some new girls!! It's hard, but better than being someones b itch. Good Luck!!
2006-12-08 13:48:19 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man you've been bit ,bit by the love bug
saddly to say there is nothing you can do but wait
if you love something let it go if it returns to you again its yours to keep (sometimes)
you are young and she will not
(repeat) will not be the only girl you'll ever love
time heals all wounds
and you will bounce back ..... take some time for your self get to know your self it does not make you cool to have a girl/boyfriend
what makes you cool is knowing you can get a gir/boyfriend when ever you want you cant make sher want you
so dont sweat it girls dont like that move on other fishes in the sea after you get to know you
2006-12-08 13:52:30 · answer #4 · answered by slpry L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone of us will have a first love my friend but our first love may not be the one for us.if she could cheat on her current boyfriend,she could cheat on you too.if she really loves you,she would be back with you. i think you deserve someone who loves you back the same way. i know you miss her and hard to forget her,but you got to be kind to yourself.date other girls and you will be amaze how it could help you gain better esteem for yourself.
2006-12-08 16:03:20 · answer #5 · answered by pristine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be understanding and caring towards her, even though she's not with you at the moment. Acting towards he in a bad way will only drive her away. I'm sorry this happened to you. I hope you get her back.
2006-12-08 13:53:02 · answer #6 · answered by cutiedudie2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your girl friend still needs her time to explore relationships.It also sounds like to me that she's not ready for a commitment. And it doesn't mean that she don't care for you. And sometimes we have to let go of something that we care about in order for that something to come back correct. And if it is for you, it will come back to you.
Hope that helps.
2006-12-08 13:53:43 · answer #7 · answered by Randi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a new girl. she left you man for some other guy. why would you want that, left overs?
so what if shes your first there will be more to come. dont waste your time on her anymore, move on, she has
2006-12-08 13:49:02 · answer #8 · answered by Diana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it'll take a lil while...shes probly cleanin up watever mess she made...tryin 2 overcome som feelings or somthin..the best u can do is just b there 4 here..in here time of need..
2006-12-08 13:48:28 · answer #9 · answered by nice4upplz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on, this chick isn't fit to lick the sweat off of your balls. Stop idealizing women.
2006-12-08 13:50:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋