Me & this boy liked each other last year around this time. Then we kinda went our seperate ways cuz i started talkin to someone else. Then me and him started talkin again. He was tellin me he loved me, he still had feelings for me & that he was neva gonna break my heart. And that i hurt him when i started 2 move on. I didnt mean 2. He always flirted with outher girls. So i jus moved on. We started talking 4 a lil while & he told me he jus talked me so he can have sex w/ me & b my friend. He did me so wrong. He even told me he still loved me after that. He has love for me but he's not n love with me. I still got feelings for him. I think he was my first love. And then i find out he had somethin on the side when we were talkin.....Im so upset. Even though it's been about a month. I cant get over him. Please help me. What should i do??
2006-12-08 13:39:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Add i DID NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM!!!
2006-12-08 13:52:46 · update #1
You don't stick with 1 guy in your life, so many HOT guys out there, open your eyes
2006-12-08 13:42:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep telling yourself you can't get over him guess what ? you're not going to be able to get over him, at least not anytime soon. Sounds to me like you took a second chance with this Guy only to hear him tell you after he got the sex he wanted that you gave so freely...he's just not in love with you! that is such a bunch of crap! what he really should have told you was the truth. I wanted to have some more sex with you and I've had enough for now i don't love you until the net time I can pull this same **** on you.YOU young lady need to realize this; you, Y o u made a mistake ! are you going to give him another chance to "F" you/ cuz it sounds like that's all he's good for ! And why not you keep giving it to him.SO HE'S GONNA KEEPP ON COMING BACK FOR MORE.. The first step to get over it is ; to recognize you've made a mistake then decide what you deserve and what risks you are willing to take to have the relationship you want & deserve. You can't expect any guy to love & resepect you if you don't love & respect yourself. Start liking yourself.
2006-12-08 21:50:13 · answer #2 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the only " feelings" this boy had for you were in his pants. Forget this " user" and all the guilty feelings. Find a guy that is genuine and sincere. The way to find out ? Take your time. Don't rush into sex etc. If that's what it takes to keep a guy then he's not worth keeping.
2006-12-08 21:51:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl i have the SSAAMMEE problem. he broke my heart and he has a new girlfriend but like i still have so much feelings 4 him all my friends tell me i need to move on but im like i can its hard...but its easier 4 me 2 tell u how 2 help urself...eat a BIG thing of icecream lol if u have pics newhere hide them...ne memories that u have take them away i kno there a nother HOTTER AND SWEETER guy out there 4 u so jus keep lukin...i bet hes dead in ur face and u dont kno...jus pay attention and ull see
2006-12-08 21:43:43 · answer #4 · answered by ashley c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that u want to stay with the guy who u loved first but he is not sincere so better leave him. He is not ready for serious relationships then y u wanna get serious in case leave him.
He is not the only perfect man in the globe.
But never flirt.
Look b4 u leap.
All the Best!!!
2006-12-08 23:10:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow ! a lot happened at once eh ? from what i understand he is only saying he loves you so he can sleep with you. he was planning on using you girl...even though its a month, it doesn't mean you should be completely over it by now...different people move on at different times..it just takes time..just remember that he was out to sleep with you, with only that on his mind...you deserve better...all you have to do is just get out, enjoy and try not to think about him..it will all be better...don't worry :)
2006-12-08 21:46:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer - FORGET him.
Life cannot be made to work with 'use & throw' kind of relationships, but at the same it can not be made to work with 'alwyas repair & use' kind of relationships. And let me tell you, you have both the flaws in one single relationship. It is not worth it...
2006-12-09 00:45:23 · answer #7 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to foget him and try to live happy. There are too many other good peoples around you. You can find someone in ther
2006-12-09 04:11:08 · answer #8 · answered by BUNTY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're still in love with someone who had "someone on the side?" You've got to be kidding.
You're not in love and he is not worthy of your love.
2006-12-08 21:43:05 · answer #9 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get sterilized. I think I speak on behalf of all readers in expressing my sincere desire that you or your retard boyfriend do not reproduce and take the human gene pool down a notch.
2006-12-08 21:43:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋